Hot on the heels (I know, I couldn't resist it) of last nights dream about sandals... comes a story of magical manifesting and surprise.
This is real - but it's also a fairy tale manifestation, and it just may have a gift in it for you - so I will start it the way all good fairy tales start.
Once upon a time... when I was a struggling single mum, I wished for a pair of shoes.
Not just any pair of shoes, actually I really wanted boots, and I had an idea of the boots that I wanted. They were brown and had white stitching on them. At least mid-ankle length and as I had next to no money at all - I had no idea how I could possibly end up with them.
I considered they were a pipe dream, but all the same, I wished for them. I had a picture in my head and I don't know what made me do it, but I said 'Dear God, I would LOVE a pair of boots like these. I have no money to buy them, but I would LOVE them, and I don't know how they could be mine, but I would just love them.' And I completely dismissed the idea and went on with my life.
A couple of weeks passed. I had to go pick my children up in Tauranga (they had been away for a few days) and asked my friend Liz if she would like to come for a ride. She was up for it and so off we went, leaving Auckland early enough to be in Tauranga about lunchtime.
We got out of the car, gasping for coffee and headed off up the road to find a nice cafe. About half way up the first street, the footpath was clogged with a group of women and we had to almost 'swim' through them to get past. (Just quietly, I was a bit annoyed.) We were hailed by a lady with a microphone and asked if we wanted to join the queue to "win' something.
Ever the sceptic - I said no, and prepared to carry on, but she persisted. "You REALLY want to do this" she said. 'Oh yeah' I thought to myself, but gave her a brief window - just a few seconds of my time, for the benefit of the doubt. She came through with flying colours.
It was a radio station/shoe store promo called..... Cinderella for a day. They even had a throne. Participants were to choose a pair of shoes to try on and if the shoes fitted - they were a gift. I asked her how much it cost, because I couldn't believe it was really free. She said it was free.
Waiting in the queue I had time to watch girls ranging from roughly 15 years old trying to cram their feet into shoes that were too big and too small and thought they could have done with looking at the sizes on the boxes. (Older Cinderellas might be a bit more wily...) I was a size 39.
I did a double-take when I saw there was a pair of brown boots with white stitching sitting beside the throne. I sat down and looked at the box. It was size 39.
'There is a God' I said to myself, and requested them, giving my friend Liz a nudge towards the red shoes next to them (she was next in the queue).
They fitted me and they felt like I was walking on air. Liz fitted the red shoes - they looked gorgeous. We left the store and literally danced up the road to a cafe.
Cinderella indeed. Between us we were holding over $500 worth of shoes. I simply cannot explain to you how that felt.
Those boots lasted for ages and they were soooo comfortable.
I mentally, humbly and profusely apologised for being such a sceptic and vowed to return to Tauranga. I haven't been back... BUT...
I'll be there again soon - on September 13th, I will be at the Tauranga Yacht Club, in Sulphur Point from 7:30pm, BRINGING MIRACLES - telling stories of amazing spiritual experiences, speaking about healing and the simple ways we can heal and empower ourselves and our children, saving a huge amount of time, stress and money in the process.
My work is defined as profound, stunning, inspirational and life changing. I'm a teacher, speaker, healer, humanitarian, a survivor, a changemaker and so much more. Many of my clients call me their miracle lady and there are testimonials to some of the miracles here.
I'm a humanitarian too, so I would love to give back to the people that helped clean up the oil spill there and also would like to offer an opportunity to caregivers. If you are one of those people and would like to claim a subsidised ticket - please contact me directly here.
If you have a special friend that you would like to nominate a seat for - please write to me about that here.
The eventfinder ticket link for standard price tickets is here.
I'm looking forward to creating miracles for you.
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Ok so. I am going to share a top secret lovely thing to do.
But I would like you to please use it wisely.
Take your smart phone (with your music on it) to an electronics store and search for their wireless speaker network - find the yummiest AirPlay speaker that will let you hook up and play your music through it - make that music count.
If you are lucky enough to be standing in front of a Bowers & Wilkins Zeppelin - my best advice is to play Amazing Grace acapella by Leann Rimes on it, it's incredibly healing and will lift you into such a clear space. If you are really up for this - close your eyes to hear it and really feel it. If you are SUPER LUCKY - a shop assistant music nut will let you blast the shop.
(Please don't tell the guys at JB HiFi that I sent you. They might think I am a music pest and it's one of my fave shops!)
IMPORTANT WELLBEING NOTICE:
Side Effects Include: Feeling a little bit (VERY) gorgeous, possibly lighter and taller. Please be aware you may also trigger smiles and weird looks from other people.
Disclaimer: If you fall in love and feel like buying new sound gear as a result of this, (a very real side effect) I am not to be held responsible. If you become a music pest, I am similarly not responsible.
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I was considering hearing (and partial deafness) through the week and got the distinct impression that a man was saying 'I don't want to hear that!' to his nagging wife. It happened a few times and then I saw him, he was older, cupping his ear and saying "what did you say?" to someone.
It registered. I saw the layers he had put down over his own ears. And I know there have been times when I have zoned people out in order to concentrate on something else - and I've been able to do it.
In my experience, hearing is directional and also optional. And we all know we can 'switch off' right?
The ability of our brains to rewire themselves according to experience is called neuroplasticity. There is scientific evidence to suggest that neuralplastic ability is different in different people. Your neural 'plasticine' is obviously pretty amazing when you are a small child - and at stages in your life you may mold yourself to take on new abilities. If one sense - say for example your vision was impaired, your sense of hearing may be enhanced (it often is) by your heightened requirement to perceive differently in order to survive.
So what if you didn't want to see? Or you didn't want to hear?
How would you be using your neural 'plasticine' then? Would you be inadvertently freezing or hardening it?
Hmmm. So what if the 'not wanting to' was healed?
What would happen if it was suddenly safe?
I have worked on a woman who was told she had Macular Degeneration.
She had accepted she was 'going blind' because this was a considered medical opinion based on observation, experience and proven medical probability.
I told her I believed she didn't have to go blind just because somebody expected it, and asked her if she wanted that outcome. She hadn't even considered that she might have an option (it's not something that people generally realise).
Of course she said no.
I worked on her, just a couple of sessions, and made her a Macular Regeneration Spray to support her healing. Her condition stabilised. She is not blind and when she sees me in the supermarket (from a fair distance away) she calls me her 'miracle lady'.
Did my healing rewire her vision or did I reframe her neural plasticity? Does it matter?
In this instance - not listening created a miracle.
My friend Mary damaged her eye just on Christmas 2011 and to this day she has a 6mm scar, hazing and a pitted cornea.
I worked with her after the damage was done and she can see very well through that eye, although according to the current understanding of how the eye 'works' - she should not be able to.
Her eye specialist tests her eyes for free because he can't quite work out how it's possible. (She has not told him that I worked on her.)
Does she have amazing neural plasticity?
There is more to life than we can possibly imagine.
And what I see is that we need to be F L E X I B L E.
How is your neural plasticity?
And what have you been told about what you've 'got'? I may not believe it. And it just may be in your best interests that I don't.
There are miracles we can't even imagine, just waiting to be served up.
I say YES to them.
What else is possible?
It seems funny doesn't it? That crystals could help us, but they do. And in a way - it is a science.
Crystals are made of particles of matter, just like we are, our particles of matter (and theirs) have a particular vibration or frequency.
The frequency of a human during 'wellness' is very different to a frequency of a human during unwellness - think good vibes/bad vibes.
So what happens is, when a human is feeling sick, it's a little like a big bite has been taken out of our electrical field. And in place of that bite mark - the crystal's energy (an energetic signature of its mineral makeup) can very gently provide the support the person needs until they build their own field up strongly again.
I discovered the benefits of crystals when my youngest son developed asthma symptoms from a cold. We were down at the Doctor's surgery on the nebuliser several times, and the panic and stress it caused him - on top of the unwellness, was awful.
He was very small and terribly frightened of the 'smoke' coming out of the nebuliser.
We did this mercy dash a few times and then one day I found myself standing in a crystal shop, looking at the Crystal Bible.
I always loved the glitter of gems and jewels and crystals had attracted me for a long time, but I had never really connected with them significantly. I will reiterate here, that despite the 'voices in my head', the seeing weird things, and the dreams that happened - I had no idea that my brain was working in a psychic kind of way - I was really sceptic. And still slightly sceptic, when I discovered there was a woman who claimed that a crystal could have 'powers' to help my son.
I bought one, and took it home. The next time I was called into his room was the middle of the night a few nights later. He was wheezing and his skin was so tight over his sternum. I quickly found the crystal and put it on his chest.
He relaxed immediately and started breathing normally.
I was a bit gobsmacked. And stood there with my mind spinning. Surely this was not possible? Why are we all taking poison into our bodies if this kind of reaction is possible?? Where is the information about this? All I watch on television, all I hear from the Doctor is about relying on drugs.
I tried it again when he was wheezy and it worked the same way.
We NEVER used the nebuliser again. And we stopped using the control puffer too. And eventually - after maybe 4 bouts - he stopped the wheezing with colds altogether.
I shared my information with friends who got the same results.
What would you rather do if you had a choice? If you had a crystal toolkit at home and could decide whether or not you needed the Doctor - would you use it?
So my top crystal healers for a home toolkit are:
Apophyllite Pyramids - easy breathing, releasing tension.
Quartz - amplifies energy, removes toxicity from water, brings clarity.
Selenite - brings peace into a room, fantastic for relieving bad dreams.
Sodalite - eases mind chatter and soothes, promoting sleep.
Amethyst - helps with sobriety, headaches and energy protection.
Rose Quartz - love this - heart, grief, loss support AND super for the skin!
Fluorite - best friend for the memory, focus, study and clarity in the mind.
Orange Calcite - Useful for IBS sufferers. Good for tolerance and acceptance.
Carnelian - A tummy soother and digestive friend. Provides extra energy to the body.
Jasper - An amazing tissue healer, I have seen it ease skin on burn victims, it lightens scars and restores elasticity.
Black Tourmaline - shields and protects against radiation and soaks up/blocks negativity. Great if there are angry people around. Shields energy draining.
You can simply place crystals on the skin or in your pocket.
More in depth information on how to use these crystals is available through my classes, and Sprays can be made for specific help, I run classes for these or teach people in individual sessions.
Apart from recovery from illness, there is a significant advantage in being able to get your breath back fast - I make crystal prescription sprays for some fairly significant sports people too.
Want to know how crystals could help you? Hit the info button below.
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Your pain is always a message.
You can ask what that message is, or you can ignore it or block it.
In childhood, manners prevailed to make sure that all people adhered to some kind of preferred moral code.
Sit down and be quiet, be seen and not heard, and it's not your turn right now etc.
went into the ears and shaped the lives, of many people walking around on the planet today.
That sort of talk creates a programmed inner dialogue that we run with our bodies. 'Be quiet, I can't do anything about my stress - I'm busy at work' is a biggie and so is ignoring pain. Ignoring pain can lead to deeper unwellness and so it's important to be able to hear pain when it's speaking to you.
Despite our fear that we might be taking on something big - the body isn't necessarily asking for much attention. It usually just wants quality attention.
So take a quiet moment and ask. "What do you need?"
The answer will probably lie in fresh air, sunshine, grass, trees and getting outside (grounding) or slowing down - this does not mean a rocking chair, but it may mean that today is a great day to do a half day and get a bit of space from everyone.
Sometimes your body will say it wants out of somewhere a bit bigger than just the office. Now and then it's breaking down to get your attention because you are in a relationship space that is not honouring you. Be brave enough to listen.
Whatever it says, getting to know it is crucial.
Connecting with ourselves is the thing we have all been trained out of. Why? Because it gave us power, and while we are growing, parents and everyone around us can deal with us easier if we don't have too much. So reconnecting with yourself is about reclaiming your personal power base. It helps you say what you feel - to others and to you and it helps you see more clearly and act more successfully in life.
For more info on practicing the art of listening, email me here.
50 ways my work has made life easier for people.
Do you resonate with this?
You've dragged yourself to work, aching and knowing that you really shouldn't be there, but you are scraping through hoping you'll make it to the weekend.
It's only Wednesday and everyone is looking at you as if you are a leper.
You have 'the guilts' and are being eyeballed as a risk to everyone's health, while simultaneously cursed, because nobody wants you to take time off.
You are wishing you were at home in bed anyway.
You somehow find a hidden reserve of energy and make it through the afternoon, go home, and in the morning you just can't do it. Your worry about the cost of a day off, of healthcare, what other people think about you spreading bugs and being a general inconvenience has melded with your feeling like crap and something has tipped the balance on your scales.
You decide not to go into the office today.
You don't really like taking pills, but if you have to, you will take them, and you're not getting any better, so you go to the Doctor - because you can't take time off work without a medical certificate. Sitting in the waiting room, you pray that other peoples bugs don't jump on you and so you shallow breathe and cringe slightly.
You watch, privately shuddering as small, slime encrusted children share their slime with toys and books, and you wonder to yourself about how potentially hazardous it is to collate a whole lot of buggy people in one space.
The Doctor is running late. More buggy people arrive. You succumb to the allure of the 2 year old House & Garden - to discover the recipe of your dreams in its pages.
Your morals say no to ripping out the page - and the recipe is a long one. You are halfway through frantically scribbling when the Doctor calls your name.
In his office you breathe again, mentally testing yourself on his eye chart, and wondering how tall you are now, while you look at the measuring tape on his wall.
He takes one look at you and says "You're not well." This is not news to you.
(Doctors are amazing people, and they work brilliantly with body mechanics and clues. Thankfully some very fabulous ones are getting into natural therapies and so can offer a range of services - however - I am not talking about them - this is just an experience.)
He is not sure what it is. You and your body presented him with clues, and the clues seem to indicate it could be a virus. However, just in case it's something he can kill - he gives you a prescription for antibiotics and your 'get out of jail free' card - the You Are Medically Unfit for Work certificate.
Off to the chemist, you wait again, and the total sum of your trip is around $90 - $100.
You go home and eye the antibiotics suspiciously. They appear to be baiting you and they just feel like chemicals and giving in. Thinking that you normally get well anyway in about 3 days, you put them on top of the fridge. With the other old unopened antibiotics. Somewhere you read about them killing good bacteria anyway.
You are definitely off to bed, but first you have a glass of water because you are dehydrated from all the running round, you put on a load of washing, clean some windows, wash the kitchen floor and catch up on a few jobs that you haven't done around the house.
Later you feel much better. Even though you didn't take the tablets.
You moved out of work energy - your body was telling you to leave and you listened.
You moved into the energy of 'I am now seeking wellness' - the Doctors Clinic - and it was crucial, because the Doctor gave you a few minutes of his time, checked you out, reassured you slightly and gave you permission to be off work. (the recipe is completely gone from your memory)
You went to the Pharmacy even though you don't really like taking medication, because you are a person who follows through with things, and you still do believe medicine has some kind of role to play. (in some cases and for some people, it does)
Your body said no to the medication (I CAN DO IT was kicking in) and that's why (despite that nagging feeling your mother would growl) it's on the fridge. Your teaspoon of stubbornness (that will stop you from telling your mother you're sick) that busted through and said 'NO' has helped you to flip some kind of hidden switch.
You achieved something that, while it was just getting housework out of the way, was actually a 'weight off your shoulders' too. You feel lighter and a bit fresher, and also, in a small way, successful. You moved energy in your house.
You go to bed, but don't feel as sick as you did. In the morning you feel much better, better than you did when you were dragging yourself to work, but you stay home - just so you can have a day off that actually means something - because you have a certificate. (You can clean out the bowl on top of the fridge another day.)
Consider this: All the things you did that made you feel better - were things you were doing just for you.
What if you just gave yourself permission to take time, enjoying the nurturing energy of a natural therapy?
Natural Therapy tends to boost you and shorten healing time. That $90 - $100 is a great investment in a session of clearing, healing, moving stuck energy, maybe even including house and office clearing too.
Your session runs to the clock. You enter a peaceful 'bug free' haven (or even stay home, saving gas and travel time and have this healing via Skype) and as the energy is cleared round you, you are lifted into a space of freshness.
Your equilibrium is restored. You have a whole hour all to yourself. No antibiotics, just pure energy boosting, undivided attention that is all about, and all for you and your wellness.
Nurture time is GOOD. You feel more like You when you are finished/leave.
Enhancing wellness helps removes the need to heal unwellness.
Regular energy work helps you be more connected to the way your body feels, functions and how it speaks to you. Science actually says the body - despite the fact that you can push on it and it appears to be solid - is an energetic instrument. So this is why time and time again, physical illness is removed in ways that seem impossible, with energy.
And because it's just energy, it works on body, mind and spirit - not just the mechanics.
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Sessions may include and are not limited to:
Clearing and release of unwellness from illness or injury (new, old, or chronic)
Clearing of stuck energy in home and office
Cord cutting and removal of old energy from past relationships
Family healing, clearing the air and basically the removal of (and freeing up of energy around) anything that is weighing you down.
Clearing the energy around projects, situations and more.
50+ways my healing has helped people
Deciphering your body code: Pain
Andorra is a tiny country in the Pyrenees mountain range between France and Spain.
It is a popular ski resort, with just 20,000 inhabitants.
It's loaded with breathtakingly beautiful scenery, very clear water - breathtakingly freezing cold for a traveller to wash her hair with, I might add - but it held something else magical that had me spellbound - a surprising and heart warming demonstration of community.
I stayed only for a very quiet night in an alpine hut, ultimately sleeping 'fairly rough' on an airbed that had absolutely no commitment to staying inflated. It may just be me, but if I'm on one, I can't go to sleep until the whole thing has deflated and my body parts are making full contact with the floor. None of this half floating round stuff for me.
In Andorra, I experienced strangers wishing others well.
As my fellow travellers and I were wandering into the main town on foot, there was a huge tooting, and beeping of car horns coming from behind us. Coming from New Zealand this might signal some major calamity, so startled, we all turned around...
to see a wedding car, and many cars following with ribbons on their aerials - all of them were tooting and honking their horns, and as they got right into the heart of the traffic, all the other traffic around honked and tooted too. All the people waved and shouted hooray, and the joyous cacophony heralded the procession through town and out the other side, bouncing off the mountains and echoing until peace prevailed.
It was utterly magical witnessing a community celebrating the love of two people they may never know. I banked that magic inside myself, savoured and remembered it, and many times when I've seen a bride since, I've tooted and/or waved, and my heart smiles remembering Andorra.
Sharing joy, celebrating and adding our blessings to other peoples blessings is something we are often shy to do, but it's such a beautiful way to join in community with others. It's so uplifting once we allow ourselves to be open to it, it makes the world much smaller and more intimate and gives us a deeper experience of life.
Do you have a tradition like this?
If there is one thing I have learned, it's that all of life is about energy.
The body is a constant process of renewal, not a structure as some people
believe, and in it, energy never stops.
Our whole body - it's complete cellular make up, including all organs and the skeleton, is replaced within one year.
So what are we feeding it?
And I'm not talking food here, I'm talking energy and power.
Do we enable? Or disable?
What we observe becomes us. What we hold close becomes us. It literally does rub off. People that are close to us are oscillating in our field, the same way as we oscillate in theirs. It is actually impossible to be alone, because not just energetically
speaking, but scientifically speaking too -wherever we go, we take people,
trees, sky and plants with us.
We inhale each other and all the energy that is around us.
This is why we are sometimes referred to as One.
So when people 'get sick' in any way, what they are referring to is an imbalance of
energy - whether it shows up in a physical way or an emotional way - it starts
with a flattened/squashed/ or grey energy.
I have lost count of the number of people who tell me that they have had 'this thing forever' so they are 'stuck with it'. In a short time, these same people have been free.
Energy can be moved in a moment, and your pain, no matter how old it is, brings me joy.
Because my gift is the gift of turning pain to wellness.
Your physical, spiritual and emotional pain - to me - is an opportunity to exercise my abilities to bring you liberation, wellness and skills to help you and to change your life.
So educating you and freeing you, is not only my pleasure, it's the icing on my cake.
If you are carrying pain (no matter how old it is), you probably don't need a pill,
what you do need is TLC, a clearing and then, energy tools.
Simple, effective, and powerful.
Mainstream media mostly tells you that pain is a part of life. The cost of
believing that is massive, and they are right until you stop resisting the power
that you have within you and allow it to wake right up.
And that is most definitely a gift.
If you have a group, I have speakers rates available.
I am currently taking One on One clients, locally and world wide - either in person or via skype, and my next shows are scheduled in Hamilton - August
3rd, Tauranga August 23rd, Auckland Sept 6th, Nelson Sept 20th, Wellington Nov
28th, Auckland Dec 13th. I have been asked to speak in Dargaville and am arranging that.
My Christchurch show is to be advised - I have plans afoot for something super special... sending as many goodwill vibes as possible so it comes together perfectly.
I'm looking forward to giving you my simple tools to create an inspired, fabulous life, because it's my heartfelt wish to have a radical, positive effect on your life, and on the wellbeing of your family.
Are you ready to meet your brilliance?
Maybe you are a healer…? How would you know?
We are all healers in some way - but some of us do resonate more with our abilities, or could do with awakening to our abilities so we can use them to enhance our lives and the lives of others.
15 Tell Tale Signs to watch out for...
When I first started my work, I was completely blind to many of my gifts, and only over time, did they become obvious to me.
For example, I was told by people who did readings, to stop doing readings for free - I was just talking to people and had no idea I was having some 'mystical conversation' with them, it was a natural part of my life, me being me.
Apparently I was also a 'healer' - and if you are an 'entry level' person you will resonate with this word - as 'healer' means 'person that makes others feel better'.
If you have been around healing for a while, it's likely that you would say you were a facilitator, which doesn't really make sense to people who come out of mainstream - they may think you coordinate events or some other random thing. Once upon a time, as far as I was concerned a Facilitator was a random term with multi-functions, a little like the word Consultant.
Anyway - the following list may prove useful to you - and perhaps it will bring an AHA moment or two, plus answer the odd question you may have.
It all relates to my experience and what I have witnessed through my work. Knowing how to use these gifts has changed my life completely.
1. Your hands intermittently get really hot. And may even be dry or peel.
2. You feel awful when others are suffering.
3. If you could take people’s pain away you would.
4. You are attracted to caring professions.
5. You are the ‘go to’ or fix-it person in your family circle of friends.
6. People sit down next to you and tell you their life stories without any encouragement on your part. Often they are perfect strangers.
7. You constantly hear the words ‘you just know the right things to say’.
8. People tell you they feel better ‘just having you around’.
9. You can see the bigger picture and are great at reassuring people.
10. When people who felt terrible, get up feeling fabulous and walk away, sometimes you feel flat as a pancake.
11. Even when you are the sober driver, you still wake the next day feeling hung over.
12. You feel chronically dehydrated sometimes.
13. Sometimes (often times) you have to admit that you look after other people better than you look after yourself.
14. You often run on empty, then find some kind of magic hidden reserve and keep going. (No, wait! That might be also be parenting!)
15. You can no longer watch the scary movies or thrillers you once found interesting because they somehow impact too deeply on your body.
If any of these things, a few; or even nearly all of them resonate with you – you could probably do with a few tips make life a little easier. Using your skills in a focused way can create amazing wellness for you and others around you, it can save you time and money. It can even become an income, and may indeed be your life’s calling.
How many can you tick off this list? Share with me - I'd love to know.
For information on how you can make life easier by understanding and using your gift: contact me here.
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It's my pleasure to enlighten and empower you, so I hope this has been useful.
Thank you for reading and sharing my work.
In many cases ONE Energy Healing session can release ALL your pain.
can cut the distance between You and Your Healing into minutes.
Pain, stiffness and tension are all energy blockages - even pain due to injuries - and energy healing clears this.
Why do I think energy healing is great?
These are results...
and... helping plants grow. (You should see the size of my jade plant leaves!)
So what else is possible? All these things have happened for my clients, their testimonials are here.
I was a sceptic who regularly took Panadol and other painkillers for a chronic sore back. I had phantom pains, a broken heart, felt depressed and had low self esteem. I recovered from a prolonged series of traumatic life events that brought both extreme pain and around 30 years of fear. I still am partly sceptic and that's why I love to see and hear results.
Every day, people are helped by this work.
It works over the phone, via Skype, anywhere in the world.
Some people are helped in ways they never dreamed possible.
Are you ready to believe that you can let go of pain?
Deb Rowley, Energy Expert, Healer, Speaker & Coach