If there is one thing I have learned, it's that all of life is about energy.
The body is a constant process of renewal, not a structure as some people believe, and in it, energy never stops. Our whole body - it's complete cellular make up, including all organs and the skeleton, is replaced within one year. So what are we feeding it? And I'm not talking food here, I'm talking energy and power. Do we enable? Or disable? What we observe becomes us. What we hold close becomes us. It literally does rub off. People that are close to us are oscillating in our field, the same way as we oscillate in theirs. It is actually impossible to be alone, because not just energetically speaking, but scientifically speaking too -wherever we go, we take people, trees, sky and plants with us. We inhale each other and all the energy that is around us. This is why we are sometimes referred to as One. So when people 'get sick' in any way, what they are referring to is an imbalance of energy - whether it shows up in a physical way or an emotional way - it starts with a flattened/squashed/ or grey energy. I have lost count of the number of people who tell me that they have had 'this thing forever' so they are 'stuck with it'. In a short time, these same people have been free. Energy can be moved in a moment, and your pain, no matter how old it is, brings me joy. Why? Because my gift is the gift of turning pain to wellness. Your physical, spiritual and emotional pain - to me - is an opportunity to exercise my abilities to bring you liberation, wellness and skills to help you and to change your life. So educating you and freeing you, is not only my pleasure, it's the icing on my cake. If you are carrying pain (no matter how old it is), you probably don't need a pill, what you do need is TLC, a clearing and then, energy tools. Simple, effective, and powerful. Mainstream media mostly tells you that pain is a part of life. The cost of believing that is massive, and they are right until you stop resisting the power that you have within you and allow it to wake right up. And that is most definitely a gift. If you have a group, I have speakers rates available. I am currently taking One on One clients, locally and world wide - either in person or via skype, and my next shows are scheduled in Hamilton - August 3rd, Tauranga August 23rd, Auckland Sept 6th, Nelson Sept 20th, Wellington Nov 28th, Auckland Dec 13th. I have been asked to speak in Dargaville and am arranging that. My Christchurch show is to be advised - I have plans afoot for something super special... sending as many goodwill vibes as possible so it comes together perfectly. I'm looking forward to giving you my simple tools to create an inspired, fabulous life, because it's my heartfelt wish to have a radical, positive effect on your life, and on the wellbeing of your family. Are you ready to meet your brilliance? Deb X
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In many cases ONE Energy Healing session can release ALL your pain. can cut the distance between You and Your Healing into minutes. Pain, stiffness and tension are all energy blockages - even pain due to injuries - and energy healing clears this. Why do I think energy healing is great? These are results...
and... helping plants grow. (You should see the size of my jade plant leaves!) So what else is possible? All these things have happened for my clients, their testimonials are here. I was a sceptic who regularly took Panadol and other painkillers for a chronic sore back. I had phantom pains, a broken heart, felt depressed and had low self esteem. I recovered from a prolonged series of traumatic life events that brought both extreme pain and around 30 years of fear. I still am partly sceptic and that's why I love to see and hear results. Every day, people are helped by this work. It works over the phone, via Skype, anywhere in the world. Some people are helped in ways they never dreamed possible. Are you ready to believe that you can let go of pain?
Jennifer Anniston once joked that her life was spookily like her movie roles,
and instead of playing dysfunctional women who constantly get left by men, she would like to have played a few happily married women with two children and a dog. I can see her point. We are what we concentrate on, and it looks like she pours herself into her movies. But which came first? The chicken or the egg? It's a cycle isn't it? In order for things to change - somewhere, someone has to break the cycle. We are aligned with what's around us. All the more so if we really throw ourselves heart and soul into it, because it sits around in our auric field and flows in and out, a little like high and low tide. We are electrical, magnetic creatures. If we are drawn to drama, it is around us. Perhaps we are watching it, reading it, living it. If we enjoy drama and don't mind it in our lives, that is great. It's when the drama gets to be a bit too much and makes life difficult, that we might need to choose. The body certainly operates well without it. A few years ago (when my life was filled with drama) I stopped complaining about having no spare time and instead switched off my television. It was my first step to self discovery. Although I had read lots of women's magazines in my youth, I had grown very weary of the sensationalism, stereotypes, pressure, advertising, and the misleading headlines that many were full of. My second step, was to stop buying those magazines. Gradually I stopped wishing I had legs like Elle MacPherson and started enjoying the legs I had. With my own perfectly good legs - the third step I took, was to figure out what brought me joy. I discovered joy, bliss, energy and more and it was in the real connections that I made with people, being engaged with life and with nature that I found my true calling. Walking people through heartache, hardship, pain and loss - and out the other side into the sunshine. Bringing people who believe life just has to be ordinary, that they are all on the treadmill to a life filled with miraculous possibility and awakening people to their brilliance - that's my calling. I don't have to go hiking to see the beauty of nature. It's around me, it's right on the end of my nose. It's in you. I changed my life from a journey of pain, to a journey with brilliance, and you can too. The greatest part about it is - you don't have to take as long as I did, because I can teach you what I learned. I didn't have a Deb to help me walk free sooner - but you do. We can do it together - one small step at a time. ReStart is a program of three sessions, including a life overhaul - clearing for mind, body and spirit, home clearing plus mentoring. Clearing the old, getting strong in your self now, getting strong in your environment(s) and creating your own amazing life. Deb X "Here's what goes wrong: most men are really seeking freedom. We're teaching you, the freedom you are seeking is the freedom from the bondage of resistance that is always self-imposed. But most men are looking for freedom. Most women are looking for security, security that they'll only find when they come into alignment with who they are. But they're looking for it through a partner. So she's looking for more security, which is making him feel less free, and he's looking for more freedom and that makes her feel less secure. And so that's the basis of most contention in most relationships." ~ Abraham Hicks I Love Abraham. That is bang on. Many women take love where they can find it. They spend the rest of the time trying to jam some perfectly lovely man into the box and banging the lid down on it. He gets speed wobbles trying to fight his way out, so she quickly sits on it and nails it shut. And he doesn't want to hang around? Go figure. When an empowered gorgeous Goddess who knows she doesn't NEED a man shows up in a space with a gorgeous man who knows how to be a rock without being OWNED - then you've got something going on. Beautiful. I can only reference to my feminine experience of this and so I will. I used to be so scared my man would run away, that I wanted him to stay home. Guess what? He eventually ran away. Did me (and you) a favour - because he set himself free to learn other things and made me rely on myself. A painful, beautiful, life changing gift. A transformation even. If he hadn't done that I wouldn't be doing what I am doing now. So finally, I'm grateful. Standing back and looking at the big picture is beautiful. I was a self imposed doormat that transformed and grew into a magic carpet. I'm no love guru, but this much I do know. If you get it, before he runs away and you stop clinging, he suddenly gets the freedom he needs and he may not go. The kicker is - he will only get that if you work on yourself. It's not your job to work on him, it's your job to be the strong empowered Goddess you were born to be, creating your own magical life. If he goes, he is not yours and you have some situation or person coming that is much more suitable for you. Trust in that because if you keep your attitude upright it will happen. Bitching, bitterness and man hating will not bring you new love on any level above what you had, it simply reveals you didn't get the lesson and worse, you will very likely end up with the same guy just with a different 'suit'. (Yes I'm still speaking from experience) It's nobody's responsibility but yours to make YOU happy. You can be your own new love. Go plan some great things to do and instead of waiting by the phone, let it go to message. And don't bag men. Or hang out with man-haters. Man-haters have a vibe all of their own and regularly take negative pleasure perpetuating their own myths by attracting women-haters. If a new relationship starts with, "my ex did this to me" and you meet that with a sad or angry story of your own, you have little more in common but pain and negativity. Give all that a great big swerve, do some work on yourself and be grace filled and gorgeous. You'll likely save yourself years of pain, possibly wrinkles, and maybe even money. Getting over it and you need a hand starting anew? Have some healing and clear the decks. There could be a great benefit in cord cutting or clearing. Deb X Do not complain about your life until you investigate the ideas you have. Make sure your ideas serve your wellness - if they do not - THROW THEM OUT. Get new ideas or leave room for the birth of inspiration. Bitterness will never make you better, or better than anyone else. Avoid toxic conversations and situations. Understand that when two people are angry and you don't like it - you are the one who needs to do something about it. More anger feeds the war, put your weapons down. And leave the battleground. The idea that someone has wronged you is sort of spiritually flawed because every step of your journey has been your teacher, if you did not learn from it - it's guaranteed you have another lesson coming. Learn fast - requiring the same lesson over and over is not bad luck. Know that if 'love' requires selling yourSelf short - it's not love - and do something about it. Be a friend to yourSelf. If you have no friends and you don't like yourSelf either - you know where to start. Embrace every day as a delivery vessel for new possibilities. Recognise and honour your values and your virtues. Dream a dream and take some steps towards it. Be just a little braver than you think you can be. Feed your inner child as often as possible. Light a candle for yourSelf every day. (or when you remember) Find something to be thankful for. Do something for somebody else. Make praise one of your hobbies. Speak your truth. If you love someone - tell them - a moment of such courage could change your life forever. If someone doesn't love you - move on. The person who will love you is waiting. Taking the ghost of your old partner into your new relationship is one of those ideas you need to examine. Remember you have a purpose on this planet. Know that miracles already surround you. See the beauty in small things. Heal yourSelf in nature. At least go for a walk, hug a tree, swim in the sea or lay on the grass. Laugh uproariously. Share your stories of hope and love. Inspire. Act on your hunches. Smell the roses. Paint with your hands. Meditate and rest when you need to. (you need to often) Love wildly, passionately, deeply, gently, loyally and often. Give your smiles away. Surrender everything you can do nothing about. And surrender all your pain and all your (perceived) unhealed relationships. Find out who you are. Do that NOW. Your joyfulness heals the planet. If you don't know how to start finding your joy - observe puppies and small children playing with water. Get over yourSelf. Give with grace. Receive with grace. Be pleased to know the end of the world is not today. You have both less time and more time than you think. So hurry up and... slow down. Eat honey. If 2000 year old honey is still edible and if 'you are what you eat' is really true, then honey IS the bees knees. You are each and every one of you a gift filled with gifts. Treasuring yourSelf will help you to honour your gifts. Drink more water. (The 42 Commandments are now available as a pack of cards @ just $42 NZD a pack plus postage. To order yours, click the picture or the red link below to go to the webstore.) I'm wishing YOU a miraculous day!
Florence Scovel Shinn passed away in 1940, but before she did, she wrote some of the most transformational books. Her books formed a strong base for today's life coaching. Her writing was recommended to me and so I bought 'The Wisdom of Florence.' It was explained to me that she was very 'Gody' in her writing - there were a lot of biblical references, but that they were a solid practice and contained manifestation principles for abundance, health and more. I read it, and loved it. And took it to Australia when I travelled with my friend Mollie a couple of years ago. We were shopping in Melbourne. It's fair to say we helped out the Melbourne economy and they would probably love to have us back. During an 'attack of the shopping guilts' on the fourth (and last day) we were there, I decided to meditate to 'ease my troubled mind.' It was morning, and as our body clocks were on kiwi time, we had an extra couple of hours to fill before the shops opened. I decided to bathe in the energy of Florence's book, and put it on my chest while I meditated. My 'bridge over troubled water' showed up and I had a vision of a very radiant Christ, holding his arms out wide, who said to me "Adorn Yourself." Startled because that was not my usual thing at all, I turned to Mollie and told her what had just happened and she immediately said "There you go - Jesus Christ says you should keep shopping!" All I could think of was going back to jewellery shop that I had bought a couple of things in, there was a cross that I loved there. We arrived and I went to the cabinet. It was still there and as I looked at it, the owner came to my side. I told him I might buy it and gift it to someone, as I couldn't stop thinking about it. He looked at me a bit funny and said "No, it's yours, it's for you." I told him I had already been shopping and bought all sorts of things, so couldn't buy it for myself. He said "No - it's yours, I'm giving it to you." I stood there for a minute, not comprehending that he would do such a thing, but sure enough, he meant it. It was AUD$80. A heck of a gift from a stranger, but he insisted. I came away from his shop shaking my head, wearing it, and it has been a constant source of support for my work ever since. Later I realised that a woman had come into my shop about a year prior to our trip, and had drawn a picture of it for me, saying that when I got bogged down with life and forgot who I was, I was to remember that I was the cross that was 'shaped like this.' (Sometimes I have met spiritual people and wondered where on earth they got their ideas from, and although her words were kind, they were a bit weird, so I had disregarded them) It was an amazing experience that continued to unfold though, as I used it in a healing - my friend was in hospital and when I showed it to her, she asked me if I got it in a little alley in Melbourne, in a little shop, and described the shop exactly. I confirmed that I did, very surprised, and she said she was there two weeks earlier with her son, who wanted to buy it for her, but that she had told him it wasn't for her - someone else would come along soon and get it. She had lent me a book by Kathleen McGowan about Christ and Mary Magdalene and in it there was a story of a lady who was gifted a very antique ring that symbolised Mary in a shop. I read it just before I went to Melbourne. Still shaking my head about the whole thing, it felt like a weird dream, and to be honest, with the work I do every day, creating, or being a part of miracles for people, it's pretty much on going. We all have the capacity to create miracles and now and then, when I forget that what I do makes a difference, I try to remember that the gift of that ability is a miracle in itself. Sarah MacLachlan sings 'it's not that unusual, when everything is beautiful - it's just another ordinary miracle today.' I know my kind of ordinary sounds extraordinary to others, but it's only the surface. If the seemingly impossible is possible - and I constantly see that it is... What else is actually possible? To look at life with awesome wonder is the least I can do. Deb X
The shoes looked gorgeous in the window.
The idea of wearing the shoes felt delicious. All her life she had dreamed of having shoes like these, wearing them, how her life would feel once the shoes were in it. They were perfect. It was a match made in heaven and finally she had got to a place in her life where the shoes would be hers. She tried them on. They rubbed a tiny bit and were a little bit high, but she thought she could handle it. They were so beautiful, they would stretch and give - and end up being perfect. They would get used to her feet. Everyone said they looked amazing together. She would spend time admiring them. She loved them. Wearing them hurt a bit, but the blisters would stop eventually. She was in love with the idea of the shoes, but eventually she had to admit her feet were killing her and there were times when she wanted to wear the shoes so badly, but she knew that they were too painful. She wore them short distances instead, and came to understand, that even over those short distances the shoes did not support her. Yes the idea of them was good. They were like her drug. One day the pain became too much and she put them back on the shelf. She looked at them from time to time. And sometimes she tried them on. In her mind she dreamed of wearing them - of dancing in them joyously, being blissfully happy in them. Wishing hard. Once she wore them to the supermarket, but as soon as she walked in, she knew it was a mistake. She limped home, her heart sore, the disappointment was so great. They hadn't stretched and given where she had needed them to, they made her teeter and not feel sure of herself. She realised the little whispers that said ‘No’ were worth listening to, even though they felt like they were trying to steal her joy… They held so much promise and they had so much potential, but the shoes didn't change her life. Only she could. She realised that she was looking on the outside for something that she needed to grow within. And that the way she walked was more important than a pair of shoes. Her feet were what supported her and she should take care where she put them, and what she put them into. She invested in putting her best foot forward. And, walking with heart instead of her mind, she decided to just love where she was standing. It changed everything. She became love. The love fitted her better than any pair of shoes, and that love drew new love to her, new love that honoured her better than trying to squeeze into anything that didn’t feel right. Her path was paved with love and bathed in light. Her feet felt fabulous. And her heart said 'Yes'. Deb Wharfe (c) 2013 You are not missing out on anything. There is nothing to see on the other side
of the fence. The grass is not greener there, but if you hanker after it - you may be fooled into thinking that it is. Your magic is right where you are standing. Water your own garden, sing your own songs and count your blessings. This is the surest and fastest way to be surrounded by magic and to welcome in miracles. The rainbow does not come to you if you chase it - it is best appreciated from a distance, like all God's work. God is an impressionist painter. Standing close up will have you missing the point. And possibly getting crossed eyes. Breathe. Still yourself. Stand back. Have patience with your own process and allow yourself to know the peace in your own heart. If the butterfly lands on your shoulder - you are blessed. If it lands on the flower in front of you - you are blessed. If it lands in the neighbours garden - you are blessed. If there are butterflies on the planet - you are blessed... You are blessed. It's enough. Get to know it. Personal contentment is in this knowing. And contentment is the lotus that holds happiness, truth, freedom, goodness, love, miracles and so much more. Wishing you a day of contentment. In love and miracles, Deb x Dear Friend,
I hear you having the same problem and being mad at people who are not doing what you want them to do. They are not treating you how you want to be treated. You cannot control them. After all - if they tried to control you - you would consider it an insult. Leave them alone. They are not treating you how you would like to be treated because... a. You have not given them a guide by treating yourself well. b. They are resonating to a different energy from the one your body/field is trying to move into. It hurts because you are holding a finite vision of yourself. It hurts because within it there is an absence of love. One train of thought says people do 'mean things' to themselves and each other because they don't understand what 'honouring' is and they have forgotten who they are. Another train of thought says 'Every moment is perfect.' In the Bible it says Adam went to sleep and nowhere does it say he woke up. I find that interesting. You must awaken in this body in order to make peace with what you feel are recurring 'problems.' Perfect learning is in each 'problem', perfect opportunities, perfect growth, strength, realignment, and so much more. Be ok with the lesson and it will work for you. Hold resistance and this resistance will cause you pain. You will have the lesson again if you refuse to understand it. Every person on this planet has free will, and many are exercising it. You included. You have the choice to walk clear of painful situations and to also not turn you attention to pain. Yet you wish to punish yourself by doing this. It only needs investigating if you do not wish for peace. Peace is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence. Love is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence. Limitless power is with you when you choose to acknowledge its presence. Limitless power is you. You are not broken. You merely need to step fully into your own shoes. And know you are dearly, divinely, always loved. Deb x If you were your own True Love, how delighted you would be with your own quirkiness.
How beautiful you would find your curves, how courageous your scars and your marks left by life's wounding and how very magnificent the well earned stripes of your stretch marks would look. How gentle and patient you would be with yourSelf if something felt sad. How carefully you would choose your words. You would find yourSelf so funny, so beautiful, so kind and so caring. You would be awed with what a great person you are, even after all the challenges you have had. You would tell yourSelf not to be hard on yourself; that you always did the best could, that you are worth the very best life has to offer, and you would make sure you gave precious time to yourSelf. You would surround yourSelf with good people and good ideas. You would find yourSelf lovely little things to do, you’d light yourself a candle, you would take yourSelf constantly out on dates, fill your life with little kindnesses and you would give yourSelf the best experience ever of love, encouragement and delight. You would adore yourSelf and want to hear what your heart has to say. You would dream of the best things you could do, the best places you could go, and you would laugh about some of the dreams. And some would enter your heart. You’d be ever so grateful for the miracle of you. And if you did that? You would be filled with light, with love, with encouragement, with delight… You would be free to be the You that You really are, cherished, honoured and loved. You would be the One you can lean on, the One you trust, the One you seek out. The One you are ‘looking for’ would be right on the end of your nose. The other end, not the one we traditionally mean. When you are that One, what often happens, is your resultant satisfied, joyous heartsong of overflowing love that resonates out into the Universe calls with the right harmony for a resonant heart to hear it. In order to find this, find yourSelf. You are your own most precious gift. Pour all that love you are waiting to give someone into yourSelf, step into your own awesome sunshine and see the truth of your delicious magnificence one yummy drop at a time. Would you? I’d like that. Deb x 021 726 276 Previous post: My journey through my shows. |