I'm always grateful for testimonials, especially when they are from someone who is new to my work - it helps others who are unsure, to get the healing they really need... and also to know that even old pain can be removed so simply.
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Our attitude defines us.
It swirls around everything we look at and is a part of our view of life. If we believe everyone is out to get us, we are not going to be wearing the eyes to see the daily magic that's present everywhere. If we believe that we live on the most amazing, miraculous planet and have amazing opportunities open to us - life shows us more. It's very simple. And there are all sorts of ways that we empower or disempower ourselves, depending on our mind sets. Many of us have seen the simple experiment - someone has an outstretched arm and says 'I am strong, I am strong' - and another person tries to press that arm down to the floor. They encounter quite strong resistance. When the person with their arm outstretched says 'I am weak, I am weak', they have almost no resistance to the person who pushes their arm easily to the floor. Haven't seen it? Try it. Try it on a friend without telling them what you are doing so you both have an element of surprise. And then have a little think/brew/meditate on where you might be telling yourself you can't do something in your life. Chances are you are right, because you are disempowering you. Now if someone else talked to you that way - wouldn't you argue with them? So what can you tell yourself that you CAN do, something that you wish to turn around and have a positive effect with? You have to keep at this, but things become simpler the more often you do it. You are breaking a habit and that takes a little persistence - or does it? Perhaps you could tell yourself it doesn't and commit to an instant radical positive lifestyle change. It's up to you. If you would like a Reframing session - examining old thoughts and beliefs that you are ready to release, we can do that in one session. Text me for a booking on 021 726 276 or email me through the button below. Deb X If you are complaining in any way about how your Dream Life feels out of reach,
ask yourself this… “would my Dream Life contain me, standing in the middle of it complaining?” If you are complaining - you may be actively working against your Dream Life because you are focusing on negatives – flip the negative round and look at it from another side – it will be an upside down opportunity. Repositioning brings blessings. So - welcome it energetically. Hold the thought of your Dream Life in your mind, breathe in and breathe out and just transport yourself there by imag(in)ing - that's being in the image - that you are already in it. How will you feel? What amazing things come into your mind when you are doing this? Where are you? Have a look around. Now draw a cord from yourSelf to the actualisation of that Dream Life and imagine you are pulling yourself along the cord, gently, slowly. Take a step. Open your eyes and consider this… In order for you to be in your Dream Life – you have to know/feel that you deserve it. Know that miracles are possible, and not only that – your world is flooded with them, when you have the eyes to see, ears to hear and heart to feel. Your ‘dream’ life is only a dream because you are not fully engaged with it yet. Tell the Universe you understand (if you do), that you are here for your special mission and you are willing to pick up the cord and use it as a handrail to steady yourself with as you walk along your path. If you get lost or feel you have strayed off your path, spiritually reach out again for your ‘handrail’, steady yourself by breathing. And take baby steps. One at a time builds your confidence. Make a little time to sit still and let the Universe know you are open to the messages and suggestions you need to know to get sorted. You’ve got work, the most blissful, blessed work to do. Love your work, Miracleworker, keep on keeping on. It’s all worth it. Your best friends are these five words "please show me the way" and if you couple them with a willingness to follow hunches (another words for divine inspiration) then the world is your oyster... Are you open to receiving grace? "I am open to receiving grace." Wishing you blissings and blessings. EnJOY. Deb X If you were your own True Love, how delighted you would be with your own quirkiness.
How beautiful you would find your curves, how courageous your scars and your marks left by life's wounding and how very magnificent the well earned stripes of your stretch marks would look. How gentle and patient you would be with yourSelf if something felt sad. How carefully you would choose your words. You would find yourSelf so funny, so beautiful, so kind and so caring. You would be awed with what a great person you are, even after all the challenges you have had. You would tell yourSelf not to be hard on yourself; that you always did the best could, that you are worth the very best life has to offer, and you would make sure you gave precious time to yourSelf. You would surround yourSelf with good people and good ideas. You would find yourSelf lovely little things to do, you’d light yourself a candle, you would take yourSelf constantly out on dates, fill your life with little kindnesses and you would give yourSelf the best experience ever of love, encouragement and delight. You would adore yourSelf and want to hear what your heart has to say. You would dream of the best things you could do, the best places you could go, and you would laugh about some of the dreams. And some would enter your heart. You’d be ever so grateful for the miracle of you. And if you did that? You would be filled with light, with love, with encouragement, with delight… You would be free to be the You that You really are, cherished, honoured and loved. You would be the One you can lean on, the One you trust, the One you seek out. The One you are ‘looking for’ would be right on the end of your nose. The other end, not the one we traditionally mean. When you are that One, what often happens, is your resultant satisfied, joyous heartsong of overflowing love that resonates out into the Universe calls with the right harmony for a resonant heart to hear it. In order to find this, find yourSelf. You are your own most precious gift. Pour all that love you are waiting to give someone into yourSelf, step into your own awesome sunshine and see the truth of your delicious magnificence one yummy drop at a time. Would you? I’d like that. Deb x 021 726 276 Previous post: My journey through my shows. Two words combined together are often abbreviated.
Do not - becomes don't. Can not becomes can't. I discovered another sneaky one just a moment ago via a download of information while I was blissfully tootling around the house... BLame. While you BLame you are restricted from forward movement. It's simple. You can't BLame and simultaneously be free. If you BLame you will Be Lame in some area of your life without a doubt. In a way you are actually the keeper of your own spiritual set of shackles. So can you do it? Can you free yourself of pointing the finger? My father always said 'when you point your finger, you have three pointing back at you.' SUPER important to make sure you know what you are doing and that you are FAULTLESS! What would you love to be free to do? And what do you have to let go of in order to create that? Because when you really focus, all that shrapnel from life disappears and you can enjoy real success. Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: Feeling negatively better Hey you. Yes YOU. No don't look behind you.
And don't ask yourSelf who I am writing to. It's actually you. I wanted to say thanks. Thanks for all the wonderful things you have done. For the times when you put your hand up, when you went the extra mile, for the times when you took someone's hand when they needed you. For the times when you pushed yourSelf harder, when you gave a little more, when you would rather have cried and hid and instead you bravely faced the world. I'd like to say thank you for soldiering on with the pain that you carry, to help others in spite of your own need. I'd like to say thank you for the inspirations you bring to the world. I'd like to say thank you for the little things you do every day that do count. Even when you think they don't. You are a beautiful, incredible, amazing, worthwhile person with unlimited potential for loving. And I've seen you use that potential over and over. You'll do it again and again. Despite being knocked back or hurt, because that’s who you are. You believe in Love. And I'm right there with you. It's real. When you love as deeply and unconditionally as you can - the planet breathes in peace. You are gold, and you are the change we have all wished to see in the world. The magic is within You every single moment of every single day. Your touch of kindness brings grace. The essence of my being salutes the light that dwells within yours. There is indeed only One of us. It's a blessing to know you. In love and miracles, Deb 021 726 276 Next post: Losing your RRR! |