A few weeks ago I had a client in front of me for a power session. Talk turned to her 3 children, her youngest specifically, and I experienced this little girl elbowing her way through a crowd, really pushing, and saying 'IT'S MY TURN!'
Nothing weird about that you say?
But At the time I was viewing it - this little girl was not born yet and she was actually fighting to get to earth. I could see her demanding to 'go' from where she was - to here. She had chosen her parents and it was URGENT. I felt her brave, spunky personality come through strongly.
My client had been to me a few times, so I felt reasonably comfortable sharing my vision with her even though it was a little 'outside the square.'
Her mouth almost fell open.
She said 'my daughter has told me this herself within the last week. She said I CHOSE you mummy and it was REALLY important that I came to you right then, I had to - or I was not going to be born.'
What amazing timing, it reinforced to my client that this information was a really important point for her to understand - and her daughter was right - the day Mum decided two babies were enough and she definitely didn't want anymore, she discovered she was pregnant. Her determined wee girl had jumped through a closing window.
This is good news because I've worked with clients that were having trouble conceiving, and when I have gone to 'see' what the issue is, the issue is often a simple one and not always to do with body mechanics.
On investigation I have held conversations with little souls who say "they have a mess in my room" and "they haven't made room for me" and "they are too busy."
And surprised people say 'Yes the baby room is on the front right side of the house and yes, there ARE a load of cardboard boxes in it, and yes - it needs painting. We were going to slow down and tidy up and paint later.'
Energy clearing sometimes needs to happen because some babies can be fussy and prefer not to have scary rooms either.
Some people adopt and then their own baby comes because the environment has adjusted, and some give up, then become pregnant simply because they have relaxed.
So, I'm grateful to receive insights such as 'the elbowing' because it further supports what I've already witnessed.
And it's an encouragement for people. If you are growling at yourself and completely disheartened by the system or the process, please don't give up, have some clearing - you may need to make some small, but valuable changes in order to set up a really welcoming environment.
We are physical, mental, emotional and spiritual beings and all these layers can be worked on.
I know it can be tough, but you don't have to feel like its something that's wrong with you - it might not be.
In the end what happens is the right thing, and it's super important to be nurtured to find peace in that. Sometimes the little ones we are here to care for most, are on the inside of us.
Miracles happen every day, if you want to know more about this work, phone me on 021 726 276.
Deb Rowley, Energy Expert, Healer, Speaker & Coach