Have you ever:
Wanted to do a vision board, collected the magazines and then looked at them for ages and finally put them away?
Or made one and it worked?
Or made one and nothing happened and it got chucked in the cupboard
Or made one, everything showed up, then you forgot to make a new one?
Me too. In fact, ME THREE. Three of those things happened to me at different stages. One felt quite disconnected, the others were great.
Then for a while I was contented, busy and just doing life, and then I came to a flat spot and realised I didn't have any 'live' goals or requests in with the Universe.
I had to change that and in the middle of all the wondering, a new process was born. Happy dance!
The things about vision boards is:
⭐You have to know what you want.
⭐You have to be ok to ask for it.
⭐You have to trust.
⭐You have to deal with glue, scissors, pictures and TIME (and sometimes other people who don't like the mess).
⭐They have to be the RIGHT pictures if you're anything like me it needs to be a pleasurable process and work of art.
Knowing what you want is all very well. But if you don't know how it can happen, your brain can interfere with the process and you can go about *trying* to make it work instead of letting it go.
If you don't know what you want and you stick everything on there and there's no room for the thing you REALLY want when you finally figure that out, then what? Stick it over the top?
There's a magic in the process that people sometimes miss. Instead of thinking about the *things* you want, the best *thing* to do is to:
⭐and say YES to the greatness that can be yours by Divine Right.
How do you know what that is?
You can only humanly imagine, the Divine has WAY MORE up it's sleeve for you than just the human stuff you are asking about. So you can inadvertently LOCK that out!
A lot of our life is spent actually blocking this subconsciously and the Universe won't give us what is ours if it knows we are going to say no to it because we can't receive or that we are scared of it in some way.
So what's the process?
It's ONLINE this Thursday night and next Thursday night and it's called Elements of Greatness.
💎It's about downloading your own elements.
💎It's about getting out of the way.
💎It's about letting the Universe deliver the elements it has lined up for you.
💎It's about coming online with the thing that fuels you.
💎It's about the magic ingredient that makes it all stick.
It's a very cool process that got me to action from sitting around dithering with way too much scattered energy.
For two whole hours you are going to be right in the flow of BIG MAGIC in a golden vortex of creation and there will not be a GLUE STICK in sight!! 👏
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BOOSTING LIFE! Growing your magic!
Understanding blocks and learning GREAT tools to shift them.
Did you know your biggest blocks are the KEY to your biggest growth? Smashing them, next levels life in all sorts of directions!
In the next weekend retreat at Kinloch, November 24th & 25th, we work to...
- understand how blocks are trying to save us, and love them away with gratitude
- LANGUAGE, LANGUAGE!! Understand what readiness and need have to do with manifesting
- FIND OUR FUEL! Understand where motivation comes from for us personally (or where it runs away to) and shift that into higher gear
- RESET AND REBOOT! Dig up decayed beliefs about love and abundance, examine them and leave them in the past
- SMASH OUT LIMITED THINKING! Get honest with what we REALLY want and stop telling ourselves we can't have it
- HEAL OUR LINEAGE! Cut ancestral lack loose and heal family (our families can really subconsciously shape how we accept good or punish ourselves)
- PRIVATELY RELEASE DEEP SHAME. Let go of deep secret shame which is related to not allowing ourselves to receive. This can be a private process or we can purge it by sharing if we wish.
- LANGUAGE, LANGUAGE! Turn our inner critics into inner cheerleaders, self-love and stop leaking energy to heaviness and hopelessness
- DIVINE OUR OWN DIVINE LIFE! Learn what makes us feel cherished and how to say YES to more of that (bring that ON, right?)
- FEARLESSLY LOVE! So we can be fully open to the joy of LOVE and SUCCESS in all levels of our lives.
WOOHOO!!! This weekend is full of magic, understanding, creativity, love and BIG SHIFTS.
email me here to book your spot and get payment links.
$777 pp takes care of all food and materials for the event.
There is an option (for up to 5 people) to stay onsite, or you can stay offsite.
Bring a journal if you wish, comfortable clothes and a wrap and some comfy walking shoes for a gentle walk.
Contact me by email here for availability
Previous post here: The unlimited well of possibility
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The unlimited well of possibility
residing in you,
awaits your attention.
It awaits your permission.
It yearns to be explored,
held up to the light
and to have more life
breathed into it.
On the days when you doubt yourself
it holds its breath
and prays you will remember
it awaits your attention.
It is the well you dig into
when all hope is lost and yet
somehow you survive - again.
It is a font of abundance
that helps you ride
through difficulty you
never though you would manage.
It is the 11th hour, divine timing -
we have many phrases
this divine reservoir
that keeps on giving.
When you are no longer
a stranger to it,
miracle working will be
a part of your every day
and miracle worrying
will be a thing of the past.
You are always loved.
And this IS an abundant universe.
You always have permission
even when you may believe you don't.
Sometimes others presume to remove
it from us, but they never truly can.
Will you give it
What do you need from
the Universe today?
Close your eyes,
take a breath
take that permission
and just ask.
Next post: Feel the swear and do it anyway
Feel the SWEAR and do it anyway.
In my biggest moments of moving forward, I was nearly always a bit terrified, as when you start anything, you are walking on a bridge to a possibility.
The bridge is literally appearing under your feet as you take each step.
You don't know what it looks like when you get there because you've never been there before.
You're creating a new world.
All you know is, you don't want to stay where you were because something indefinable is calling you forward, urging you on. You're carving a path.
It's different to doing something that's been mapped out for you, carving a path requires a relationship with courage. Carving a path requires a relationship with dislodgement and willingness. Carving a path requires a desire for more, and for adventure, and for standing in front of people who know you and saying 'I'm making a change to myself. I may become unrecognisable.'
Carving a path may mean you have to hack out some of the undergrowth you've been navigating (or avoiding dealing with) to make your own clear ground. Your friends or family may find it extremely difficult to let the old you die away.
You'll encounter resistance. You're not taking them with you, at least not at first, but some of them will carve their own paths, encouraged by the light that shines from your life and your journey and the miracles that stream forth as you come into sync with universal flow.
Your almost inexpressible bliss is the red carpet your flow comes singing in on.
The calling can be so gentle at first, it's easy to miss it, or to disregard it as a silly idea, or even as selfishness. But it's still there.
Quietly awaiting acknowledgment.
The truth is...
Most people who start are scared.
Most people who don't start are scared.
But the ones who've started, have at least started something, and you can bet anything that when they did, they were making up some of it as they went along. Just as people who forged paths always have, just as water finds it's way, you'll find yours if you keep listening to your heart.
In the moment before you jump, leap, or leave to pursue that dream, you'll say 'shit, shit, shit' to yourself. In the moment before you make that move, you'll suddenly find a willingness to chat to the Big Guy Upstairs whether you believe or not and say 'Oh God, Oh God, Oh God' and then that piece of bridge will settle under your foot and you'll need to lift your other one.
There will be days that you get evidence you're crazy. People will smugly tell you that you don't know what you're doing while you're building your dream. The 'world was flat' though, remember? And according to someone in 1812, scientists had invented everything it was possible to invent. And all you're asking for is to recognise your greatness is a live spirited thing (yes it is) and be paid for it. It's yours.
All you're doing is integrating something that has had a pulse inside you beating forever and giving it real life outside of your body.
All you're doing is remembering and valuing it.
Yes it's scary. Self-doubt is a real thing. But sometimes self-criticism masquerades as self-doubt, and you need to check and make sure you're cheering yourself on instead of raining on your own parade. Self-doubt can come along when you are SELFED-OUT and need to rest from your ideas and any pressure that you've placed on yourSelf. So rest when you need to. Ground and recharge in the earth.
Take measured steps.
Feel your way.
Dot your i's and cross your t's.
Nobody asked you to leap over a tall building in a single bound with your underpants on the outside.
Listen first. Breathe.
What's it worth to stay still? And what's the cost to stay still?
How wonderful could life be if you were being paid to be you?
Do you need to process something first? Do you need to heal? Do you need to let go? Are you using these things to prevent yourself from bringing love, light, and possibility into that jungle?
When will you give love a go? And when will you answer your heart, mine your magic and fly?
Shit, shit, shit, here you go.
Feel the swear and do it anyway. I did, and so can you.
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Next post: The secret to your destiny might be in your school reports
Popular: 15 tell tale signs you may be a healer
Who were you? Do you still have them?
And if you have children, what are their reports reporting?
Mine is loaded with kindness, language, speaking, storytelling (sometimes too much), art and... I was a bit crap at sports. Considering I speak and work healing people it's about spot on.
So for you, it would be really interesting to go take a look and a summary of what's there. Not from the teachers that didn't really know you, from the ones who 'got' you or from the snippets that resonate. If you're a bit lost around who you are and what you're doing - or wanting to do - go on a sleuthing mission, either in old reports, or daydream into what you loved to do. It's a big part of who you are.
School time (other peoples observation) + parent energy (which you often emulate or reject) + plus background/childhood + great challenges or unwellness that you overcame (tenacity builders) + determination - these all shape us and add up to who we are.
Sometimes we have an unanswered calling inside us, and we've just stopped looking at what we want because life has side tracked us. Sometimes we are in the flow of a life journey to help others get going before we can come back to ourselves and ask what it is that we are here for, and that's all cool.
Sometimes we've followed all the processes we were told to follow and then... it still hasn't worked out the way we thought it 'should'.
So if you're wondering... go take a look. See what comes up and then, figure out what you can do with it. Remember, the language to describe your work or mission/purpose, may not have been around when you were young, so be ok to be creative with what you have. And if you were 'not paying attention' or 'the class clown' that's NOT a bad thing. Entertainers are often the class clown, kids are often not paying attention because there isn't enough going on that's fast enough - or actually fascinating enough.
So have you got a burning desire that has been unfulfilled since you were small?
Have you tucked it away thinking you could never do it?
Were you told 'people like us don't do things like that?
Take another look - now may be the time.
Want help? Email me here. If you have a funny school report comment, share below, and if you're still hanging on to anything that made you feel rotten as a result of school - let's clear that.
whose 'vocabulary is in no way limited'. Hehe. x
Next post: Holy Rowley's Sweary Miracle Tour here
We've been jokingly referred to as the Holy Rowley's multiple times.
We swear, we laugh, we have a lot of fun and there's always lots of love in our work. We LOVE to make people feel better and have a good time.
So here's an ONLINE EVENT - for just $12.73
So it's time to do something with that, something that can make a whole LOAD of people feel amazing. I've done several shows, healing torn shoulders, sore knees, bad backs, broken ankles and more, and it's time to get going again. James is a healer, and a medium, and also, a great story teller, so he's in it too.
Or read all the results below and sign up at the bottom of this blog post...
In fact, here's a bit of a list:
it's even good for growing healthy plants!
So what is possible for you? Are you sceptic? This is only $12.73 for the first one, so there's very little risk for what could be a huge gain. Previously, I was a sceptic who regularly took Panadol and other painkillers for a chronic sore back. I had phantom pains, a broken heart, felt depressed and had low self esteem. I recovered from a prolonged series of traumatic life events that brought both extreme pain and around 30 years of fear.
I still am partly sceptic (which I think is healthy) and that's why I love to see and hear results.
Every day, people are helped by this work.
It works over the phone, via Skype, messenger, zoom - anywhere in the world.
Some people are helped in ways they never dreamed possible.
So, want to join us?
Sign up here for the online session and let's see if we can get your pain to melt.
It's just $12.73 NZ for the first one.
*We'll set the date when we have enough people signed up.
James and Deb Rowley
Energy expert, Deb is also a spiritual teacher, healer, writer and artist.