A while ago I realised my Shows were part of a
process of self discovery... I started out with 'Whose Life is it Anyway?' - A Show about the dawning realisation that I was actually important, that I was in control of my own destiny and that it was really crucial for me to understand what brought me joy. I was previously so numb I almost forgot I was real. I had got very detached from life, depressed, dealing with a great deal of life trauma, and, most definitely treading water - I was on the mouse wheel. I was somebody's wife, somebody's daughter, somebody's mother, somebody's leftovers, and my own big fat nobody. I was a non-person. Putting that down, finding joy and moving forward gave me the tools, impetus and material for my first Show. I did two of these Shows, one on the North Shore and one in South Auckland. Both resonated with people. In the process, I discovered many other people who forgot they mattered, had lost their way and had no idea who they were or what brought them joy. I shared my story of overcoming, uplifting, transformation, and gave them tools to help them on their own healing journeys. My second Show 'From the Doormat to the Magic Carpet' was all about discovering my own innate magic and my place in the grand scheme of things. A very special spiritual experience gave me the name for this Show and I realised what a doormat I had inadvertently been - just trying to hold everything together when it was all falling apart. The doormat moment was actually my life or death moment when I chose not to surrender and keel over. I forced myself to push through the pain to carry on with my life. It also resonated with many people. And there was a great deal of really amazing feedback. 'In Love & Miracles' was all about dancing in the magic and realising how important it was to share with others and to set that example. There was real love in my life, I had learned not to try to 'get' love, but to personify love and so love was drawn irresistibly into my life. My husband had arrived and everything was about teaching others to create their own magic, to be love and to radiate consciously, that love to others. My most recent Show, 'Out of the Box, Bringing Magic & Miracles to Life' is all about saying "I'm here to do this amazing work, Yes, I'm a miracleworker, I'm a leader, a pioneer, and I will stand and do this work, no matter what. I've been sort of hiding from it, afraid really, to fully take it on. It takes a lot to stand up and raise your head in this field. Taking power and walking with it, is a revelation in a way - I know I'm supposed to be doing it - I've stopped fighting it, worrying about it or feeling like I don't deserve it. I'm here now. Finally for me - 'the Eagle has definitely landed'. "I'm a storyteller, a magician, a wordsmith, a healer, & miracle worker. I take people through a visual imaging and 'feeling' experience, clearing them, raising their spirits, and healing them, sometimes profoundly." Here's a snapshot of testimonials from my Dec Show 'In Love & Miracles' 'Heya Gorgeous Deb! Thank you so much for your awesome show last night! Wow... Truly amazing! Words cannot say how I now feel... Depression due my beautiful Mum's illness has lifted etc. I feel happy to be alive & truly blessed! - Paula 'I slept right through when normally woken with hip pain.....thankyou !!!!!!!!! you are indeed magic !!' - Pat 'An awesome evening with Deb last night at the Rose Centre, Auckland. A wonderful presentation ... we played with energy, healed peoples "unwellness" and enjoyed the magic she created ... reminding us all how powerful we are.' ♥ - Carolyn
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Feeling Negatively Better deserves capital letters.
This is what you do (for example) when someone cheats on you, when you tell everyone that the cheater is the Bad Guy/Girl. It feels sort of badly/good to take your wounding out in public over and over again, and each time it does - you wound yourself more - it's like the fleas that fly off the blanket you shake, end up all over you again. It's ugly to watch. Feeling Negatively Better is also something that arises when you say something like - 'she thinks she is wonderful - but look at her HAIR.' It's a false and dirty way to score points. Putting someone else down - no matter what experience they gave you - or what they reveal to you - is actually impossible because it's YOU who goes down. You are standing daily on a platform. Whatever your platform consists of - it's what you ultimately experience life from. It's a simple, magnetic world we live in. Clinging to shit means it clings to you, you don't smell sweet either and it side tracks you from the main theme of your life - which should be, to be able to dazzle with your own personal brilliance. Marianne Williamson says 'that which you cannot celebrate for others, will not be drawn into your own life.' It's true. It's a cycle. If you wish to attack others for any reason, or for their shining - you are certainly not shining yourself. Should you waste your time in this way? All thought is energy. Who really wins? There is a good chance that if this is one of your practices, one of your deep seated reasons for being scared to shine, is that you are fearful of being attacked by someone who has the same practice. Sometimes you must shine regardless and set a benchmark. And when you do, if you come under attack from less developed souls, you must just see that they are coming from their place of fear. And wish them better. Your platform is strongest when you trust your mission. So shine. And go with what feels loving, pure and good. You'll feel Positively Better. Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: My journey through my shows transferring and editing around 80 posts from my www.debwharfeglobal.blogspot.co.nz
- so watch this space - it's growing. xxx Two words combined together are often abbreviated.
Do not - becomes don't. Can not becomes can't. I discovered another sneaky one just a moment ago via a download of information while I was blissfully tootling around the house... BLame. While you BLame you are restricted from forward movement. It's simple. You can't BLame and simultaneously be free. If you BLame you will Be Lame in some area of your life without a doubt. In a way you are actually the keeper of your own spiritual set of shackles. So can you do it? Can you free yourself of pointing the finger? My father always said 'when you point your finger, you have three pointing back at you.' SUPER important to make sure you know what you are doing and that you are FAULTLESS! What would you love to be free to do? And what do you have to let go of in order to create that? Because when you really focus, all that shrapnel from life disappears and you can enjoy real success. Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: Feeling negatively better I am a big believer in making love delicious.
I call it Yummy Love and it's that special stuff that makes people playful, delight-filled and open their lives to beautiful, sacred, honouring adventures together. You can be delicious by yourself and then it will call to others. Before you know it, you have a network of people who just are loving and wonderful and you all contribute to each others wonderful lives. Yummy Love has it's own intelligence, and when you rest in its warm arms, it does the work for you - You Are Love. Recently my friend Jim Mills used a word I've never seen before, but I love it - Elationship. To me, its a great word that sits neatly alongside Yummy Love. And when I type the word Elationship - it sort of looks something is missing - and it is - funnily enough it's the RRRRRRRRRRRRR that so often makes a relationship harder. I like it. So I am sharing it. Make your relationship with life an elationship and you have it sorted. Thanks Jim for the inspiration! Big Hugs Deb X Next post: Being Lame Hey you. Yes YOU. No don't look behind you.
And don't ask yourSelf who I am writing to. It's actually you. I wanted to say thanks. Thanks for all the wonderful things you have done. For the times when you put your hand up, when you went the extra mile, for the times when you took someone's hand when they needed you. For the times when you pushed yourSelf harder, when you gave a little more, when you would rather have cried and hid and instead you bravely faced the world. I'd like to say thank you for soldiering on with the pain that you carry, to help others in spite of your own need. I'd like to say thank you for the inspirations you bring to the world. I'd like to say thank you for the little things you do every day that do count. Even when you think they don't. You are a beautiful, incredible, amazing, worthwhile person with unlimited potential for loving. And I've seen you use that potential over and over. You'll do it again and again. Despite being knocked back or hurt, because that’s who you are. You believe in Love. And I'm right there with you. It's real. When you love as deeply and unconditionally as you can - the planet breathes in peace. You are gold, and you are the change we have all wished to see in the world. The magic is within You every single moment of every single day. Your touch of kindness brings grace. The essence of my being salutes the light that dwells within yours. There is indeed only One of us. It's a blessing to know you. In love and miracles, Deb 021 726 276 Next post: Losing your RRR! |