Our attitude defines us.
It swirls around everything we look at and is a part of our view of life. If we believe everyone is out to get us, we are not going to be wearing the eyes to see the daily magic that's present everywhere. If we believe that we live on the most amazing, miraculous planet and have amazing opportunities open to us - life shows us more. It's very simple. And there are all sorts of ways that we empower or disempower ourselves, depending on our mind sets. Many of us have seen the simple experiment - someone has an outstretched arm and says 'I am strong, I am strong' - and another person tries to press that arm down to the floor. They encounter quite strong resistance. When the person with their arm outstretched says 'I am weak, I am weak', they have almost no resistance to the person who pushes their arm easily to the floor. Haven't seen it? Try it. Try it on a friend without telling them what you are doing so you both have an element of surprise. And then have a little think/brew/meditate on where you might be telling yourself you can't do something in your life. Chances are you are right, because you are disempowering you. Now if someone else talked to you that way - wouldn't you argue with them? So what can you tell yourself that you CAN do, something that you wish to turn around and have a positive effect with? You have to keep at this, but things become simpler the more often you do it. You are breaking a habit and that takes a little persistence - or does it? Perhaps you could tell yourself it doesn't and commit to an instant radical positive lifestyle change. It's up to you. If you would like a Reframing session - examining old thoughts and beliefs that you are ready to release, we can do that in one session. Text me for a booking on 021 726 276 or email me through the button below. Deb X
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There definitely is a place for Madame Zelda in fortune telling. For some people - velvet is important. Just not for me. If you have an idea about how readings are supposed to happen, or what psychics are - leave it at home. A visit with me is an interactive experience and we are spending your money. To waste your time trying to figure out whether I'm real is a waste of a fantastic opportunity. I'm too busy for that and the opening that you can have in your life - really is out of this world if you will just allow it to happen. So building the bridge, forming an opinion and having an idea is great, as long as they are all ideas about how you would like life to leap forwards. I'm here to hand you the reins and help guide you firmly on your path. I'm here to give you power and knowledge about how to create and co-create your amazing life. That is not at the bottom of your tea cup. One of my gifts is the ability to clear away your old story (what happened to you) and integrate effective energetic tools within you, giving you the power to create your amazing new story. Sessions are NZD$100 for an hour and $60 for a half hour. Your AHA moments are free of charge. 021 726 276
If you are complaining in any way about how your Dream Life feels out of reach,
ask yourself this… “would my Dream Life contain me, standing in the middle of it complaining?” If you are complaining - you may be actively working against your Dream Life because you are focusing on negatives – flip the negative round and look at it from another side – it will be an upside down opportunity. Repositioning brings blessings. So - welcome it energetically. Hold the thought of your Dream Life in your mind, breathe in and breathe out and just transport yourself there by imag(in)ing - that's being in the image - that you are already in it. How will you feel? What amazing things come into your mind when you are doing this? Where are you? Have a look around. Now draw a cord from yourSelf to the actualisation of that Dream Life and imagine you are pulling yourself along the cord, gently, slowly. Take a step. Open your eyes and consider this… In order for you to be in your Dream Life – you have to know/feel that you deserve it. Know that miracles are possible, and not only that – your world is flooded with them, when you have the eyes to see, ears to hear and heart to feel. Your ‘dream’ life is only a dream because you are not fully engaged with it yet. Tell the Universe you understand (if you do), that you are here for your special mission and you are willing to pick up the cord and use it as a handrail to steady yourself with as you walk along your path. If you get lost or feel you have strayed off your path, spiritually reach out again for your ‘handrail’, steady yourself by breathing. And take baby steps. One at a time builds your confidence. Make a little time to sit still and let the Universe know you are open to the messages and suggestions you need to know to get sorted. You’ve got work, the most blissful, blessed work to do. Love your work, Miracleworker, keep on keeping on. It’s all worth it. Your best friends are these five words "please show me the way" and if you couple them with a willingness to follow hunches (another words for divine inspiration) then the world is your oyster... Are you open to receiving grace? "I am open to receiving grace." Wishing you blissings and blessings. EnJOY. Deb X If you were your own True Love, how delighted you would be with your own quirkiness.
How beautiful you would find your curves, how courageous your scars and your marks left by life's wounding and how very magnificent the well earned stripes of your stretch marks would look. How gentle and patient you would be with yourSelf if something felt sad. How carefully you would choose your words. You would find yourSelf so funny, so beautiful, so kind and so caring. You would be awed with what a great person you are, even after all the challenges you have had. You would tell yourSelf not to be hard on yourself; that you always did the best could, that you are worth the very best life has to offer, and you would make sure you gave precious time to yourSelf. You would surround yourSelf with good people and good ideas. You would find yourSelf lovely little things to do, you’d light yourself a candle, you would take yourSelf constantly out on dates, fill your life with little kindnesses and you would give yourSelf the best experience ever of love, encouragement and delight. You would adore yourSelf and want to hear what your heart has to say. You would dream of the best things you could do, the best places you could go, and you would laugh about some of the dreams. And some would enter your heart. You’d be ever so grateful for the miracle of you. And if you did that? You would be filled with light, with love, with encouragement, with delight… You would be free to be the You that You really are, cherished, honoured and loved. You would be the One you can lean on, the One you trust, the One you seek out. The One you are ‘looking for’ would be right on the end of your nose. The other end, not the one we traditionally mean. When you are that One, what often happens, is your resultant satisfied, joyous heartsong of overflowing love that resonates out into the Universe calls with the right harmony for a resonant heart to hear it. In order to find this, find yourSelf. You are your own most precious gift. Pour all that love you are waiting to give someone into yourSelf, step into your own awesome sunshine and see the truth of your delicious magnificence one yummy drop at a time. Would you? I’d like that. Deb x 021 726 276 Previous post: My journey through my shows. A while ago I realised my Shows were part of a
process of self discovery... I started out with 'Whose Life is it Anyway?' - A Show about the dawning realisation that I was actually important, that I was in control of my own destiny and that it was really crucial for me to understand what brought me joy. I was previously so numb I almost forgot I was real. I had got very detached from life, depressed, dealing with a great deal of life trauma, and, most definitely treading water - I was on the mouse wheel. I was somebody's wife, somebody's daughter, somebody's mother, somebody's leftovers, and my own big fat nobody. I was a non-person. Putting that down, finding joy and moving forward gave me the tools, impetus and material for my first Show. I did two of these Shows, one on the North Shore and one in South Auckland. Both resonated with people. In the process, I discovered many other people who forgot they mattered, had lost their way and had no idea who they were or what brought them joy. I shared my story of overcoming, uplifting, transformation, and gave them tools to help them on their own healing journeys. My second Show 'From the Doormat to the Magic Carpet' was all about discovering my own innate magic and my place in the grand scheme of things. A very special spiritual experience gave me the name for this Show and I realised what a doormat I had inadvertently been - just trying to hold everything together when it was all falling apart. The doormat moment was actually my life or death moment when I chose not to surrender and keel over. I forced myself to push through the pain to carry on with my life. It also resonated with many people. And there was a great deal of really amazing feedback. 'In Love & Miracles' was all about dancing in the magic and realising how important it was to share with others and to set that example. There was real love in my life, I had learned not to try to 'get' love, but to personify love and so love was drawn irresistibly into my life. My husband had arrived and everything was about teaching others to create their own magic, to be love and to radiate consciously, that love to others. My most recent Show, 'Out of the Box, Bringing Magic & Miracles to Life' is all about saying "I'm here to do this amazing work, Yes, I'm a miracleworker, I'm a leader, a pioneer, and I will stand and do this work, no matter what. I've been sort of hiding from it, afraid really, to fully take it on. It takes a lot to stand up and raise your head in this field. Taking power and walking with it, is a revelation in a way - I know I'm supposed to be doing it - I've stopped fighting it, worrying about it or feeling like I don't deserve it. I'm here now. Finally for me - 'the Eagle has definitely landed'. "I'm a storyteller, a magician, a wordsmith, a healer, & miracle worker. I take people through a visual imaging and 'feeling' experience, clearing them, raising their spirits, and healing them, sometimes profoundly." Here's a snapshot of testimonials from my Dec Show 'In Love & Miracles' 'Heya Gorgeous Deb! Thank you so much for your awesome show last night! Wow... Truly amazing! Words cannot say how I now feel... Depression due my beautiful Mum's illness has lifted etc. I feel happy to be alive & truly blessed! - Paula 'I slept right through when normally woken with hip pain.....thankyou !!!!!!!!! you are indeed magic !!' - Pat 'An awesome evening with Deb last night at the Rose Centre, Auckland. A wonderful presentation ... we played with energy, healed peoples "unwellness" and enjoyed the magic she created ... reminding us all how powerful we are.' ♥ - Carolyn |