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If you're a parent who has run out of steam and out of answers, or you've tried everything and are still guessing, maybe I can help.
One of my greatest delights is helping kids navigate life easier - it's great for them, and that makes life better for you too. (This work also helps relationships.)
I'm in New Zealand and have clients in about 20 countries, so you can be anywhere in the world (as long as you have internet) and have healing for your child.
I work on children in multiple countries, remotely to bring back as much balance and love into the home as possible.
I work with the parent - not the child. This means you can fully BE heard and your child can stick to their normal routine.
This makes the work easier and the connections clear and strong.
One of my greatest delights is helping kids navigate life easier - it's great for them, and that makes life better for you too. (This work also helps relationships.)
I'm in New Zealand and have clients in about 20 countries, so you can be anywhere in the world (as long as you have internet) and have healing for your child.
I work on children in multiple countries, remotely to bring back as much balance and love into the home as possible.
I work with the parent - not the child. This means you can fully BE heard and your child can stick to their normal routine.
This makes the work easier and the connections clear and strong.
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Bring a photo if you wish. If a child is in the session, their confusion energy requires attention and this diverts some of the healing energy that could be taken by the body/mind/emotional field for whatever they are needing.
Sessions are done with you because you are a strong link - you're seeing what the issue is and the value in session is maximised by working directly with the parent or caregiver. Parents are often full of very intuitive perception which helps with the healing. You'll learn surprising things in a session and get tools. I love working with children, helping them heal and let go of burdens and struggles, to grow and understand themselves, and helping their parents understand their energetic needs and behaviours is paramount.
It's enlightening, interesting, humbling and so very rewarding. Our kids are magical, they have so much going on in their energy fields... ⭐They're high sensory. ⭐They're very connected. ⭐They're aware of their parent's stuff. ⭐They have past life stuff affecting them. ⭐They are questioning the world and the way it all goes together. ⭐They withdraw if the overwhelm is too much for them. ⭐They need technology/screen time. ⭐They need green time. ⭐They need grounding. ⭐They need to feel safe. ⭐They need to have a voice. ⭐They need us to be authentic and grounded. ⭐They need to be in charge of their spaces. ⭐They need their visual imagery and anxiety decoded. ⭐They need to be able to sleep at night without interrupting energies in their bedrooms. ⭐They need tools. When they don't have a voice to ask for what they need, they show you a freaky behaviour instead (and lets face it, loads of adults do that). Sometimes it looks like disobedience, drama and even revolution - and these times are a real cry for an energy clearing in their routines or systems. The overwhelm has a language and Mums and Dads can't always decipher it, so I'm very grateful to be able to help. What you project towards them matters too. Raising kids isn't always easy, it's a job, but a good job, to train yourself to not think they are difficult and bring that mind energy back to 'they are acting like children and need my help.' After all, it's in their job description, they're navigating a crazy world too. They can pretty much read you like a book, so if you've got that thought running loose in your mind, bring it right back to ground and start with 'we are all learning here, you, me and everyone.' It will change your experience and soften situations. Meditate for free here if you need to recharge yourself. 
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*Note, it's a large file, so you might want to read only, without fully downloading it. Contains an extra tip for single parents for when their kids come home from the ex.
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FEEDBACK:
'We came to Deb regarding our 18 month old baby girl who was diagnosed with developmental delays stopping her from meeting her milestones. I had searched everywhere for help but no one had achieved the result that Deb has in just three 20 minute sessions.
After the very first session my husband and I both noticed that our daughter had got her confidence and was more active. We have had three sessions with Deb now and with each session we are seeing our baby grow more confidently. We will continue to work with Deb as the result has been remarkable. Deb truly works miracles - I used to hear about miracles but now I am experiencing it through Deb. We are very grateful to Deb for helping our baby progress in her life.' - Neelma & Nick
After her first treatments, for the first time ever, Nick & Neelma's daughter was able to raise her arms and hugged her Dad when he came home from work.
After the very first session my husband and I both noticed that our daughter had got her confidence and was more active. We have had three sessions with Deb now and with each session we are seeing our baby grow more confidently. We will continue to work with Deb as the result has been remarkable. Deb truly works miracles - I used to hear about miracles but now I am experiencing it through Deb. We are very grateful to Deb for helping our baby progress in her life.' - Neelma & Nick
After her first treatments, for the first time ever, Nick & Neelma's daughter was able to raise her arms and hugged her Dad when he came home from work.
You truly do create miracles Deb. After a remote healing session on our daughter 6 months ago, she has done nothing but develop in leaps and bounds! Two years of very little development despite numerous therapists, and natural therapies and you do a healing on her and WOW! It's like you switched the light on for her. She is now 'connected' affectionate and doing new things every week. Thank you, thank you, thank you! - Kim Baird.
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Healing is great for kids and parents.
Healing can help kids sleep better and so can room clearing or house clearing. Children's rooms can be full of busy energy from toys, siblings and past inhabitants too. I remember what it was like, being scared, being anxious, not being able to sleep, worrying and taking a giant leap from the light switch to bed because the bogeyman was there. Frankly I was terrified. I was also constantly sick with earache and tonsillitis and almost died from encephalitis at age 9. So I want to help kids - ANY WAY I CAN. I've helped children with a multitude of issues over the years, the issues on the form are just a snapshot. Get the PDF above, for Rainbow Jumping to help clear energy, it will also help to clear yours. |
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CHILDREN ARE BAROMETERS: One of the last things parents do when their children are going through 'stuff', is prioritise their own healing from issues. After all, it seems to make logical sense to put aside your own needs and address theirs.
Here's a time to reflect though, because children are barometers of their parent's wellbeing, and their parent's relationships.
If your child is having trouble, (beyond what's obvious), check yourself and prioritise your own health and wellbeing.
When you're steady, they can feel guide rails and it's much easier for them to know where they're at. A war within you translates to their uneasiness and they'll pull and pull and pull at you to try to find steady ground. Irritating as it can be, really, they're not misbehaving, they're wanting you to find it, they're letting you know, you're off course.
The primary underlying wounding adults come to me with is this: 'I don't feel safe.' They say all sorts of different things, but this is what it often comes back to and it comes back to moments in childhood where they felt adrift, uncertain, and not made safe by the adults around them who were having drama and wars, or simply didn't know who they were.
So if you're having trouble with children, absolutely address their needs, but look to yourself for anywhere you feel unsure, angry, or wobbly and do your level best to ground and process that and bring it back to balance.
They're watching you for clues on how to do life.
What will they get from you right now?
If you teach them, 'I can find a way through anything' then they'll know, even in unsteadiness, there is a path through. It's crucial for them to pack that in their personal tool kits. Teach them by doing, don't say more words, they learn from seeing you take action on it. They're perceptive and can often hear what you're thinking so they need you to believe it and be truthful with yourself.
Some children even say to their parents, 'stop thinking so loudly', so if you are directing anger at anyone, or frustration at them, they can pick up that too. If your child says this to you, and you're thinking it's a bit unusual, I can assure you, it's not. Many children have it, and a lot of adults too. This superpower is a useful one to develop, so if it's being reflected to you, it's ane indicator that mindfulness and a bit of brain training to get out the overthinking, heal and bring in some peace is essential.
This is absolutely not a guilt trip, because life is all about navigation and I totally agree some of it is bloody tricky, but if you feel like you've tried everything with them and there's still an issue, it might be actually you. If so, ask yourself 'What's the first, small, good thing I can do to feed my own wellbeing?'
It doesn't have to take long, be expensive, or derail the rest of your week. A micro reward taken with full intention to get all the good love out of it that you can is better than forgetting you're a priority too.
There's work to be done. But it's beautiful, important work because it helps to bring peace, connection, and more love.
Love,
Deb x
Don't be an island, if you need help, ask for it because people love to be each other's angels. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to go and have a snooze at a friend's house, where running everything isn't your job.
It's so restorative I think we need to make a hashtag for this. Maybe it's #friendsnooze
Meditate, to rest if you can.
Love,
Deb x
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Here's a time to reflect though, because children are barometers of their parent's wellbeing, and their parent's relationships.
If your child is having trouble, (beyond what's obvious), check yourself and prioritise your own health and wellbeing.
When you're steady, they can feel guide rails and it's much easier for them to know where they're at. A war within you translates to their uneasiness and they'll pull and pull and pull at you to try to find steady ground. Irritating as it can be, really, they're not misbehaving, they're wanting you to find it, they're letting you know, you're off course.
The primary underlying wounding adults come to me with is this: 'I don't feel safe.' They say all sorts of different things, but this is what it often comes back to and it comes back to moments in childhood where they felt adrift, uncertain, and not made safe by the adults around them who were having drama and wars, or simply didn't know who they were.
So if you're having trouble with children, absolutely address their needs, but look to yourself for anywhere you feel unsure, angry, or wobbly and do your level best to ground and process that and bring it back to balance.
They're watching you for clues on how to do life.
What will they get from you right now?
If you teach them, 'I can find a way through anything' then they'll know, even in unsteadiness, there is a path through. It's crucial for them to pack that in their personal tool kits. Teach them by doing, don't say more words, they learn from seeing you take action on it. They're perceptive and can often hear what you're thinking so they need you to believe it and be truthful with yourself.
Some children even say to their parents, 'stop thinking so loudly', so if you are directing anger at anyone, or frustration at them, they can pick up that too. If your child says this to you, and you're thinking it's a bit unusual, I can assure you, it's not. Many children have it, and a lot of adults too. This superpower is a useful one to develop, so if it's being reflected to you, it's ane indicator that mindfulness and a bit of brain training to get out the overthinking, heal and bring in some peace is essential.
This is absolutely not a guilt trip, because life is all about navigation and I totally agree some of it is bloody tricky, but if you feel like you've tried everything with them and there's still an issue, it might be actually you. If so, ask yourself 'What's the first, small, good thing I can do to feed my own wellbeing?'
It doesn't have to take long, be expensive, or derail the rest of your week. A micro reward taken with full intention to get all the good love out of it that you can is better than forgetting you're a priority too.
There's work to be done. But it's beautiful, important work because it helps to bring peace, connection, and more love.
Love,
Deb x
Don't be an island, if you need help, ask for it because people love to be each other's angels. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to go and have a snooze at a friend's house, where running everything isn't your job.
It's so restorative I think we need to make a hashtag for this. Maybe it's #friendsnooze
Meditate, to rest if you can.
Love,
Deb x
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