More magic, more love, more connection, more engagement!
What if your partner doesn't understand your magic?
THE MUGGLE AND THE MAGIC LADY
You got together.
He thinks he is dating a perfectly normal person.
Except, he’s not.
You’re magical as f*ck and
he is a MUGGLE.
He doesn’t want to look at any of that stuff.
But, he found, one day,
your lovely lady lumps,
that there were pink,
and blue and green lumps.
You struggled to explain
the bra full of crystals.
You said you picked them up while
you were vacuuming to put them
he found them again.
Now he thinks you’re a weirdo.
His eyes are closed very tightly
(it helps his ears to close).
Why is he with YOU?
He asked for it.
He was attracted to your magic
even though he doesn’t know what
Your sparkly spirit is the thing
that invited him to sit with you
to love you
to be your best friend.
He thinks he may be overcome
by the power of the plastic unicorn
by three flying dolphins on the wall
by the cupboard of Doreen Virtue cards
(what the hell are they?)
and he’s worked out that weird smell
IS INCENSE. FFS.
He’s started to tell himself stories
he worries that his life may be infested
with crushed velvet
and nonsensical conversations
about source and spirit and dimensions
and other words
HE DEFINITELY DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR.
That shit stopped him
when he was a kid.
But he loves your sparkle.
And if he wants your sparkle
he actually needs to keep
breathing, and not hyperventilating while
the unicorns mind their own business
talking to the fairies
on the windowsill.
He could run the other way.
He is scared
of having no credibility
around his friends
whose wives are just better
at HIDING THEIR UNICORNS.
But let’s face it.
We know they’re there.
Because every time there is a magic workshop
some, not all, women tell men
they are going to the art gallery
and they pile into it.
it has a ratio
of around twenty two women,
to one man.
He might not be having conversations
about the things his friends can see
in the dark.
Because men often don’t talk
about their gifts, in fact,
they think there is something
wrong with them.
Society tells them voices in the head
are bad and that’s not always true.
Mine help people.
It really is time for people
who want more connection
and more engagement
and who actually mean,
but may not even know to say
they want more magic,
to stop saying life isn’t full of it
or stop being afraid of it.
It’s time for the magic to stop
apologising to the muggles
who just haven’t had
an experience yet that isn’t silly
The intersection of magic and logic
is a life of MORE.
It makes life and relationships
bigger, makes them
buzz, amp, grow and become
a next level freaking amazing experience.
Helping people with their relationships is one of my all time favourite things. There is enough love to go around and being ok to let it in is awesome. If you want some Yummy Love in your life, let's do some work!
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