I love working on sceptics. Healthy Sceptics who need a hand with wellness are the most AWESOME clients ever.
Shane came to me with pain in both his wrists after Carpal Tunnel operations.
He said afterwards, that his pain had been at a constant 6 out of 10, and he could kind of put up with it, BUT the reason that really propelled him along, was that his hands were closing up when he was resting. The Doctors told him 'that sometimes happens'.
His friend told him to come see me. Shane was about the most sceptic guy I knew.
He left with a 0 - thats zero pain, saying he didn't believe in it, but it worked. I didn't need him to believe in it - it was enough that he came along. I was pleased I helped him, but HUGELY dismayed thinking about all the people in the world who suffer needlessly because they don't know this healing could help them.
Healthy sceptics want to know something is going to work for them. (So do most people, right?)
Healthy sceptics are willing to try something, even though they are not sure exactly what it is - if it proves to be good for them, they are ok embracing it.
Most sceptics are in one of two boats:
1. They have not had an experience with healing, or do not know of it, or understand it.
2. They have not had an experience that was effective. Perhaps because they needed more than one treatment or did not trust the person they were working with.
The Other Sceptics: Some sceptics have a cognitive dissonance around healing. A fancy term for just not accepting something, because it would cause their whole belief system to register stress. Because we rely a lot on our world view - if we are a person who is cemented in a belief, when someone presents us with something that doesn't support our belief, we can be scared/triggered or even angry. And that's perfectly ok. This person is unlikely to present themselves for healing in the first place. Fine by me, and I mean that in a kind way - not a stick that in your pipe and smoke it way. I am here to a. bring you less stress and b. work for your money.
I'm not here to waste my time or your money talking to you if you won't/can't hear me.
That's really important.
So - first off - and I know this isn't really first because here I am down the page a way, but still - there is something to get straight here. I am, most definitely, a former sceptic. Why? I 'saw' things when I was small. BUT I was told they weren't real by other people that couldn't see them. They were wrong, and those things were real. My vision just worked slightly outside the boundaries of the 'accepted' human visionary field.
Secondly - I am a meccano, lego, engineering minded kind of fixit girl. I own more tools than many people, I can back a trailer better than many men - I like to know how things go together, and how they come apart - not necessarily in that order. I LOVE results.
So if something doesn't WORK, I am not interested - but if it works - I REALLY WANT TO KNOW.
So two things are amazing to me. One - we are all surrounded by energy that can be harnessed, we just don't tend to know how to do that for our best benefit. And Two - I can harness it - or at least direct it, and I am SO lucky because my clients give me amazing testimonies to their results - like the one below.
(And may I just say - the gentleman that gave me the testimonial below, actually cancelled TWICE before he came. He really was iffy about coming along.) He is also private about his work and personal life, but is willing to speak directly to people about the healing, if they genuinely are interested in having some.
So here is this testimonial - and I'm truly grateful for it.
Personal testimonial for Deb:
'I was extremely sceptical and cynical of anything of this nature. To me, if it couldn’t be identified, isolated, tested and re-tested using the scientific method – then it didn’t exist. My close, trusted (and similarly sceptical) friend had seen Deb and was floored by her abilities, still unconvinced – I sent my partner along and she was likewise astounded. Both of them were deeply affected by their session with Deb. Begrudgingly I made a booking and went to see what all the fuss was about. The best way I can describe my experience is: profound. Before I walked in I felt “heavy”, not a physical heaviness but a sense that I was wading through water all the time and had a great weight on my shoulders. When I left Deb after 90 minutes (was meant to be an hour but I made her keep going with the session!), I felt completely different. Lighter, somehow ‘free’ and indelibly changed in ways I’m still trying to come to terms with. I can’t begin to understand how Deb did what she did but I can attest to the fact that she can do things that defy explanation.
She knew things she shouldn’t possibly know and revealed things to me that were confronting and challenging but also uplifting, inspiring and incredibly emotional. She somehow elicits a tangible, physical change in your body without touching you? This, I cannot explain.
My experience with Deb has left me reeling and there is no doubt in my mind that I have been changed forever. I have purposely avoided emotive words like ‘miraculous’, ‘spiritual’ or ‘angelic’ but they are entirely apt ways to describe who Deb is and what she does.
Open your mind or keep it closed, it really doesn’t matter – but if you want a legitimately ‘life altering’ experience then go and see Deb.
You will leave a different person.'
This is why I love the work, and also why it's important for healers and light workers to keep sharing the possibilities with people who have never had the experiences, even though it's sometimes considered scary. Those people we work on, who are profoundly affected, share their stories bit by bit with people who trust them, and in that way, they share possibility, open eyes, ears, hearts and doors to a world of wellness that otherwise escapes people.
It's so, so important to share.
If this article helps you I'd love to know. I work all over the world, and all over the country, but there are many people in your area that also offer healing. If you are not inspired to come to me, at least keep questioning, and learning about the possibilities of healing, seek out friends who have had great local experiences and, if you need to draw the courage from them, do it, and go along to see a healer. Maybe I can even recommend one in your area.
Energy healing changes lives every day. There are more than 4 million Reiki Level One healers in the world. That's just one form of healing in a vast sea of available modalities.
What on earth would they all be doing it for if it wasn't real?
After my last show at The Dolphin Theatre...
Elsie: Deb I have to tell you… You are responsible for the relationship I am in. It's all your fault!!
Me: ?? I am!!?? Ooh this sounds serious - something happened in your love life?
Elsie: YES! And I'm over the moon!!
Me: Yay!! I am so pleased to hear it!
Elsie: Yes!! I am TOTALLY in love.
Elsie: My BED!!! Since I came to your last show I have been telling my bed that I love it. And saying things like 'Hellooooo you gorgeous bed, just hold on a bit longer... I will be with you in a minute.'
Elsie: And you know what has happened? It's amazing!! My bed feels like it is snuggling me back! I have had dark circles under my eyes for YEARS and they are now gone!
I am sleeping so well, I can't believe it.
And it's all your fault!! Thank you so much.
Me: Hooray!! Elsie you absolutely ROCK!! Go to the top of the class!!!
The first time I met Elsie was at a Dolphin Show. I hugged her, and she later told me that a pain she had in her right lung had disappeared completely during the hug. (It never came back) She had smoke inhalation and then pneumonia, and several weeks of unwellness, but the pain had not shifted till that moment. This is why she listens intently and practices my teaching.
People listen, learn and go home and change their own lives. It's so easy - it's just AMAZING.
Before she changed the energy and her relationship with her bed, Elsie was an unsettled sleeper, and her mind would jump around from one topic to another. Now she is absolutely beaming, feeling wonderful, looking amazing, and I am rapt.
My next Shows: December 6th in Mairangi Bay tickets here & December 13th at Dolphin Theatre tickets here
My clients often have great difficulty transferring the essence of my work into words.
It took me a while too.
Why? Because I often work without touching them, so it seems like magic - which most people think is not real - and people often start running when you say the words 'miracle healer'. Other people can see the results, but as they don't have a reference point for magic being real - they need to be inspired by circumstance, or courageous enough to take that leap of faith.
I work in a high trust environment. Sometimes clients just come because they have been told to. The most common phrase I hear them say is 'my friend told me I just needed to come'.
In my former life as a total sceptic who thought people were 'woo woo' and talking through a hole in their hats…. I also ran a mile when someone told me they had got 'in touch with their Indian Guide.'
'Mystical B.S.' I thought to myself. I did! and I also thought evangelists were basically vultures who preyed on, rather than prayed for people.
I didn't realise the steady stream of friends who came and told me all their problems, then left feeling better, were basically getting a healing from me. (I never told them my problems.)
I didn't realise that things I said were going to happen, did happen. I didn't realise I was right (until later) when I said 'that guy cheats on his wife' - I just knew that stuff.
I also had deja vu moments - doesn't everyone? and now and then I had dreams that happened (apparently that happens to many people too).
I completely forgot about my childhood visions because of a terrible illness that created memory loss. And I lived fairly harmoniously with the voices in my head, thinking, like most people do, that they were just thoughts.
I called myself 'normal'.
Now - I don't label anything. I like to understand why and see results.
Working with echo location gives me both.
Dolphins use echo location - a series of clicks and beeps to find things, and so do blind people when they tap their canes.
Through my BioSonar work, I create a Soundscape for a person, a place or situation, and then work with an idea or essence - through past present or future - transferring release, freedom and restorative, regenerative, healing energies within that Soundscape.
It brings some fairly amazing healing, dissolving hurts, pain and imbalance from the physical, mental, spiritual or emotional bodies.
It's also good for pre-op and post-op, sports injuries, even old pain you thought you just had to bear.
It is absolutely fantastic in helping relationships. If there has been tough stuff - but there is love that needs dusting off and bringing to light - BioSonar does that beautifully.
For more information on how BioSonar can help you (or a friend) please share this post, or please contact me via text, phone or the button below.
I got the message to share posy, a bunch, a collection of blogs together, so here we are...
Love is Easy here
What are Signposts? here
Find out how past lives can create unwellness or phobias here
Using your will for wellness here
I love a healthy sceptic here
Davo's Back Restoration feedback here
Unnecessary Unwellness - is this affecting you? here
Windy's feedback here
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'Deb I had to get hold of you and tell you about my back and what the Chiropractors have said.
As you know I've had many crashes and injuries, broken my neck twice, and my back has been terrible. I've had between 12 and 15 spots on my back that go out all the time, and because of this, I've had ten years of twice weekly chiropractic work just to get through a week of manual work.
Since I had those two sessions with you, I've been back to both Chiro's and they can't believe it's my back they are looking at! Both have checked me out and remarked that my whole spine is totally different - it has stabilised up and realigned itself - in just over a week!!
All the heat has gone out of my spine.
I have recently been working long hours on ladders again, and it's an absolute miracle that this is possible, because I have not been able to do so due to the extra strain put on the back when you stand on a ladder rung. I'm rapt with the result, not to mention how pleased I am at saving a massive amount of money and time.
It's like I have a new back. Well actually, it's really like I have a new body, I'm absolutely over the moon.
Thank you so much, I have referred you to a few people, I really hope they come.'
- Davo, Auckland
As you can imagine, I am so pleased to receive this feedback. David was referred to me. When he arrived, he told me he was a bit of a tough case. And then proceeded to say he had been in a string of accidents, broken his neck twice and taken three months to recover in a hospital from a car accident.
He is an incredibly hardworking tradesman who has been looking after himself the best way he could, while carrying on with work under difficult circumstances. I'm so pleased he came and had the opportunity to have his back restored.
For bookings or if you want to know more about how my work can help you call me or text on 021 726 276
One of the things I love most about presenting to people in my shows and seminars, is knowing that they can immediately use the tools I give them to positively affect the people around them.
And I am reminded of that often via client feedback.
I tell people how simple it is to affect their own wellness, with words, with thoughts and with action. I'm not talking jumping out of buildings, radically changing diets* and pounding the pavements - I am talking really, really, simple action.
I can't speak for you - but for me two things are super important:
1. I don't like mucking around. I like things to happen FAST.
2. Is an echo. I like things to HAPPEN. I appreciate results.
These tools are simple and I teach them because they bring instant results.
This is the just one of feedbacks I received in Auckland.
'Deb, my husband has been unwell recently with a racing heart.
He had medication for it last year, and on a Sunday a couple of weeks before your last show, he had it again for a couple of hours.
We were really worried and considering what to do, then I remembered the way you taught us to heal during one of your talks.
I used your technique on him, and the racing in his heart stopped - in his words - absolutely immediately.
We looked at each other in stunned amazement because we really didn't expect it to work!!
And it hasn't come back! We were so excited about coming to your show, we couldn't wait to tell you.
On another note - I have also suffered with arryhthmia on and off for years, and have just realised that I've not suffered from arrhythmia since I used your technique on him - perhaps I healed us both.
Thank you so much.' - Gail Craggs
The testimonial above is one part of my talk on Unnecessary Unwellness.
So many people I meet are suffering from unnecessary unwellness, and they don't even realise it.
People who have unnecessary unwellness - sometimes take unnecessary medication, (see my other testimonials) exposing themselves to side effects they could avoid - some of which are time pressures, stress, financial pressures and further unwellness.
You, or someone in your family could be one.
If you have read this and are wondering about your 'unwellness' or would just like more information, text or call me on 021 726 276 or use the button below to email.
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ph + 64 (0) 21 726 276
Auckland. New Zealand. Global.
*diet is another pet favourite blog topic. We could all eat better.
I am always grateful for feedback. It helps other people to see the scope and the effects of my work. Sometimes the feedback I receive brings me to tears.
Windy's story is one of those...
I just wanted to express my sincere gratitude in the miraculous way that you have changed my life. For more years than I would like to think of I was living with a dark cloud over my head. Nothing ever seemed to go my way. I was continuously physically ill and somewhat depressed. I was always trying to "fix" people and seemed to take hold of their negative energy with no release. Life was quite unbearable at times. Then I met you. You have freed me from the weight of other peoples "junk".
After our first meeting, which was a free "how to heal your family'' seminar, you taught me how to remove the pain in my neck. I have had this pain for over 15 years with many trips to the chiropractor, osteo and taking a ridiculous amount of medication. Nothing seemed to help. It was so bad I could not even fully turn my head to the right. Now I am completely healed!
At our second meeting, which was a crystal course where we made our very own "miracle spray'', you taught me how to be calm and just relax. This has been a game changer for me as I have always been "high strung". My husband noticed a difference immediately and is very thankful that I found you!
Finally at our last session, which was my very first one on one with you, you cleared my heart of a heaviness that has been weighing me down for over 20 years! Growing up in a funeral home is probably one of the hardest things a child can do. I have held onto everyone of those lives that were lost and the grief of their families. I lived in constant fear of death and the fear of losing the ones closest to me. My entire body tingled as you cleared away all the pain that was clinging to me.
My heart is no longer aching and my head is full of hope and joy. I am eternally grateful for your work, your love and your passion for helping others. You will be in my prayers always.
- Windy Cahill
- Previous blog post Eyesight miracles here
I work in NZ and worldwide 6 days a week from Auckland's North Shore.
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Auckland Sept 6th at the Dolphin Theatre 7:45pm
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I was considering hearing (and partial deafness) through the week and got the distinct impression that a man was saying 'I don't want to hear that!' to his nagging wife. It happened a few times and then I saw him, he was older, cupping his ear and saying "what did you say?" to someone.
It registered. I saw the layers he had put down over his own ears. And I know there have been times when I have zoned people out in order to concentrate on something else - and I've been able to do it.
In my experience, hearing is directional and also optional. And we all know we can 'switch off' right?
The ability of our brains to rewire themselves according to experience is called neuroplasticity. There is scientific evidence to suggest that neuralplastic ability is different in different people. Your neural 'plasticine' is obviously pretty amazing when you are a small child - and at stages in your life you may mold yourself to take on new abilities. If one sense - say for example your vision was impaired, your sense of hearing may be enhanced (it often is) by your heightened requirement to perceive differently in order to survive.
So what if you didn't want to see? Or you didn't want to hear?
How would you be using your neural 'plasticine' then? Would you be inadvertently freezing or hardening it?
Hmmm. So what if the 'not wanting to' was healed?
What would happen if it was suddenly safe?
I have worked on a woman who was told she had Macular Degeneration.
She had accepted she was 'going blind' because this was a considered medical opinion based on observation, experience and proven medical probability.
I told her I believed she didn't have to go blind just because somebody expected it, and asked her if she wanted that outcome. She hadn't even considered that she might have an option (it's not something that people generally realise).
Of course she said no.
I worked on her, just a couple of sessions, and made her a Macular Regeneration Spray to support her healing. Her condition stabilised. She is not blind and when she sees me in the supermarket (from a fair distance away) she calls me her 'miracle lady'.
Did my healing rewire her vision or did I reframe her neural plasticity? Does it matter?
In this instance - not listening created a miracle.
My friend Mary damaged her eye just on Christmas 2011 and to this day she has a 6mm scar, hazing and a pitted cornea.
I worked with her after the damage was done and she can see very well through that eye, although according to the current understanding of how the eye 'works' - she should not be able to.
Her eye specialist tests her eyes for free because he can't quite work out how it's possible. (She has not told him that I worked on her.)
Does she have amazing neural plasticity?
There is more to life than we can possibly imagine.
And what I see is that we need to be F L E X I B L E.
How is your neural plasticity?
And what have you been told about what you've 'got'? I may not believe it. And it just may be in your best interests that I don't.
There are miracles we can't even imagine, just waiting to be served up.
I say YES to them.
What else is possible?
In many cases ONE Energy Healing session can release ALL your pain.
can cut the distance between You and Your Healing into minutes.
Pain, stiffness and tension are all energy blockages - even pain due to injuries - and energy healing clears this.
Why do I think energy healing is great?
These are results...
and... helping plants grow. (You should see the size of my jade plant leaves!)
So what else is possible? All these things have happened for my clients, their testimonials are here.
I was a sceptic who regularly took Panadol and other painkillers for a chronic sore back. I had phantom pains, a broken heart, felt depressed and had low self esteem. I recovered from a prolonged series of traumatic life events that brought both extreme pain and around 30 years of fear. I still am partly sceptic and that's why I love to see and hear results.
Every day, people are helped by this work.
It works over the phone, via Skype, anywhere in the world.
Some people are helped in ways they never dreamed possible.
Are you ready to believe that you can let go of pain?
I'm always grateful for testimonials, especially when they are from someone who is new to my work - it helps others who are unsure, to get the healing they really need... and also to know that even old pain can be removed so simply.
Deb Rowley, Energy Expert, Healer, Speaker & Coach