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Relationships rock!
But sometimes they're rocky. Here are some ways I can help... 1. You can have a relationship healing session for yourself to help process out a painful experience, cut ties or get ready for new love. 2. If you are in a relationship, you can both have a session. 3. Do the Relationship Program, useful whether you are by yourself, or with a partner or spouse. When unseen blocks are removed, relationship connection is stronger. How good could your relationship be if heavy, disconnected energy was moved and you could find your way to really SEE, HEAR and BE WITH each other? I’m here to help relationships be more connected, magical and fulfilling. One of the big problems with healing in a relationship is, the other partner might not be interested in doing it, (or might not even recognise there is a need for it), so here’s where this makes things simpler... you can have healing for your whole relationship without them present. It really does make a difference. |
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EXCUSE ME, ARE YOU BEING HAUNTED?
11 WAYS TO KNOW: Have you felt a bit 'off' lately? Maybe you have a hitchhiking spirit with you. Perhaps this list will resonate... RELATIONSHIP EFFECTS: Hitchhikers aren't great for relationships, bringing a rocky, unfamiliarity and they can trigger some big issues to come up. You can feel like you don't know your partner anymore, might feel more argumentative, or that you don't want to give to them. They can form quite a wedge, if you can imagine, you're bringing an extra person everywhere with you and they're not necessarily feeling like being kind, loving, or giving to the stranger you might be married to. You're channeling their energy a bit and that's exhausting. |
1. You might drop into sleep easily, sometimes people will feel overcome by tiredness when driving and suddenly need to stop.
2. Hitchhiking spirits can make you feel spaced out/unfamiliar in relationships.
3. People might say 'you're not yourself' or you may feel squeezed or like you don't have your normal bandwidth, personal space or concentration.
4. You might eat differently, be quite ravenous, or have unusual food choices. Junk food consumption can go up significantly for some people.
5. They may cause broken sleep, with strange dreaming.
6. You may have extra aches and pains that seemed to come with no real cause.
7. Thoughts of doom or gloom scenarios may be a bit more prevalent.
8. More detachment, apathy, or anger, a shorter fuse.
9. A feeling of constant tension or straining in the body, like you're in a fight, but with nothing at all.
10. Heart palpitations or a feeling of bzzzzzzz like the sound and vibration a fishing reel makes when a fish runs away with the hook.
11. Hitchhikers can sometimes deepen or cause anxiety symptoms or loneliness.
A few days ago I explained to someone what I can see when they have an extra 'hitchhiking' spirit with them. I can see their face, but it looks like it has a spongy 'thickness' to it. I can't focus on them clearly like they have a separation or mirage in between us, and because there is an extra presence with their bodies - there is a sensation of confusion in the space. Their own usual vibe is not transmitting them clearly.
That confusion energy, to me, feels like a scattering of threads. And then, when I have moved the spirit along, the focus comes clearer, for want of a better word (or maybe this is exactly the right word) the person looks like they have re-inhabited themselves, and tensions and physical body issues settle. They often say they can see better and feel like they're sitting IN themselves. The feeling of not being IN had crept up on them so slowly and they'd been operating on auto-pilot.
WHY DO THEY COME?
They're not sure where to go. They don't mean to get stuck with a person, but they are looking for help and light. You're a kind of courier service or bus service until the spirit moves on to where it's meant to be.
Hitchhikers transmit the vibe of the person they were alongside, or completely over the top of your vibe. Consequently, there can be a lot of frustration around you and you may consistently experience not getting what you want.
Here's a way hitchhiking spirits can create frustration.
Imagine you're in a restaurant and the thing you want to eat is fish. The spirit with you doesn't eat fish and wants chicken.
You might hover for AGES in indecision, or you may end up with a sensitive waiter that doesn't receive your order properly or mixes it up. By the time he gets to the kitchen he has 'CHICKEN' firmly printed in his head. (This is not to say every time someone mixes up an order or has indecision there is a stray spirit around.)
Sometimes hitchhikers cause even you to stick to a crowd of people that aren't really your normal choice, and when they go, so does the connection to those people.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
You can ask (thinking/feeling loving thoughts) 'Is this mine, or can it go?' if you suspect you might be carrying a hitchhiker, and this may get it to move very easily.
If you've moved it on, you'll feel lighter.
IS THERE A BENEFIT?
Surprisingly, there's a special reason why you might have picked one up. Hitchhikers can open up a sensitivity that comes from an old unhealed wound. When they lower your energy level or trigger the unhealed issue in a relationship and you address that with healing, it raises the relationship.
Personally, they may trigger you to get healing for issues you don't realise are going on in your energy field. Stuck energy collects more stuck energy, so it's really good to get clear.
Over time, hitchhikers have inadvertently helped people to clear LOADS of issues, among them old aches and pains and injuries, and the feeling of being held back. Some have triggered people to heal childhood issues, or triggered reconnection in estranged family relationships. It's quite astonishing what comes up.
So hitchhikers may be a nuisance to start with, but ultimately cause you to have a really beautiful shift. And - you're helping them too. If you feel there's one with you and you'd like to explore it, release it, and get free, then let me know.
Love,
Deb x
* I tested this on someone before I posted it on Facebook and they scored a full house on it. We moved their hitchhiker and the change was immediately apparent. If you're prone to feeling 'off colour', it may be useful to pop it somewhere and check yourself regularly.
2. Hitchhiking spirits can make you feel spaced out/unfamiliar in relationships.
3. People might say 'you're not yourself' or you may feel squeezed or like you don't have your normal bandwidth, personal space or concentration.
4. You might eat differently, be quite ravenous, or have unusual food choices. Junk food consumption can go up significantly for some people.
5. They may cause broken sleep, with strange dreaming.
6. You may have extra aches and pains that seemed to come with no real cause.
7. Thoughts of doom or gloom scenarios may be a bit more prevalent.
8. More detachment, apathy, or anger, a shorter fuse.
9. A feeling of constant tension or straining in the body, like you're in a fight, but with nothing at all.
10. Heart palpitations or a feeling of bzzzzzzz like the sound and vibration a fishing reel makes when a fish runs away with the hook.
11. Hitchhikers can sometimes deepen or cause anxiety symptoms or loneliness.
A few days ago I explained to someone what I can see when they have an extra 'hitchhiking' spirit with them. I can see their face, but it looks like it has a spongy 'thickness' to it. I can't focus on them clearly like they have a separation or mirage in between us, and because there is an extra presence with their bodies - there is a sensation of confusion in the space. Their own usual vibe is not transmitting them clearly.
That confusion energy, to me, feels like a scattering of threads. And then, when I have moved the spirit along, the focus comes clearer, for want of a better word (or maybe this is exactly the right word) the person looks like they have re-inhabited themselves, and tensions and physical body issues settle. They often say they can see better and feel like they're sitting IN themselves. The feeling of not being IN had crept up on them so slowly and they'd been operating on auto-pilot.
WHY DO THEY COME?
They're not sure where to go. They don't mean to get stuck with a person, but they are looking for help and light. You're a kind of courier service or bus service until the spirit moves on to where it's meant to be.
Hitchhikers transmit the vibe of the person they were alongside, or completely over the top of your vibe. Consequently, there can be a lot of frustration around you and you may consistently experience not getting what you want.
Here's a way hitchhiking spirits can create frustration.
Imagine you're in a restaurant and the thing you want to eat is fish. The spirit with you doesn't eat fish and wants chicken.
You might hover for AGES in indecision, or you may end up with a sensitive waiter that doesn't receive your order properly or mixes it up. By the time he gets to the kitchen he has 'CHICKEN' firmly printed in his head. (This is not to say every time someone mixes up an order or has indecision there is a stray spirit around.)
Sometimes hitchhikers cause even you to stick to a crowd of people that aren't really your normal choice, and when they go, so does the connection to those people.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
You can ask (thinking/feeling loving thoughts) 'Is this mine, or can it go?' if you suspect you might be carrying a hitchhiker, and this may get it to move very easily.
If you've moved it on, you'll feel lighter.
IS THERE A BENEFIT?
Surprisingly, there's a special reason why you might have picked one up. Hitchhikers can open up a sensitivity that comes from an old unhealed wound. When they lower your energy level or trigger the unhealed issue in a relationship and you address that with healing, it raises the relationship.
Personally, they may trigger you to get healing for issues you don't realise are going on in your energy field. Stuck energy collects more stuck energy, so it's really good to get clear.
Over time, hitchhikers have inadvertently helped people to clear LOADS of issues, among them old aches and pains and injuries, and the feeling of being held back. Some have triggered people to heal childhood issues, or triggered reconnection in estranged family relationships. It's quite astonishing what comes up.
So hitchhikers may be a nuisance to start with, but ultimately cause you to have a really beautiful shift. And - you're helping them too. If you feel there's one with you and you'd like to explore it, release it, and get free, then let me know.
Love,
Deb x
* I tested this on someone before I posted it on Facebook and they scored a full house on it. We moved their hitchhiker and the change was immediately apparent. If you're prone to feeling 'off colour', it may be useful to pop it somewhere and check yourself regularly.
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