I was in the hospital a few years ago visiting my grandfather, when I had wild heart palpitations. Standing in the lift alone I felt a surge and then a crazy heartbeat. Asking internally what it was, I was shown the side of the lift melting into the room next door and I could 'see' a man on the table having resuscitation work done on him. Relieved I wasn't actually sick - and knowing if someone else was - at least they were in the right place, I sort of 'released' the experience, went off to visit Poppa, and eventually went home. I wandered through my week, working, getting tired, really tired, and putting it down to being a single mum of two boys, with a day job etc. And by the weekend, I was UTTERLY knackered. I was starting to believe I might have chronic fatigue syndrome. We were out running errands and I was so tired I had to stop the car because I felt like I was going to fall asleep at the wheel. I parked and said to the boys "I'm really sorry, but I am going to have to sleep for a few minutes.” They said they were ok with that, and I just surrendered to it and woke a little while later to find a friend parked on the other side of the road. She was concerned about me, and also had a bit of a chuckle - calling me a Grandma. I drove home, and that was that. But I didn't really feel like myself. A few days later, still knackered I went to see a friend I had recently met, and she had revealed to me that she was psychic. (Despite the fact that I had seen through the lift, I had not really realised that I was psychic - and was not doing my work at this stage) She said "you've been to the hospital and you have a man (male spirit) with you - have you been getting REALLY tired?" Surprised, I said yes. She said “he doesn't mean you any harm, but he is draining your energy” and that was interesting, because I actually felt like I was on high alert, an adrenal kind of feeling, like a fishing line sounds (that zzzz) when a fish takes off with your hook, AND I felt like I almost had TWO heartbeats. She told me he wanted me to take him to someone called 'Cameron', and actually - the small boy who lived next door to my old house was called Cameron. I had just moved. She said “I’m not sure it’s him, but go round and when you get there, tell him (the spirit man) that if this is his Cameron, he can move on.” I went home, 'hatched' a plan (you'll discover this is a pun), and did my housework. During that time, I discovered a remote control for my old garage door. And in my head came “Cameron, Cameron, Cameron”, the voice was very insistent. I said to it “I need to do this housework, can you wait?” and it freaked me out by saying ‘yes’. I suddenly realised, the man who bought my other house was also named Cameron, there were TWO Cameron’s living next door to each other!! So I went - after I’d been and bought some Easter Eggs. I visited little Cameron, gave him the Easter Eggs, and then dropped off the garage remote at my old house next door. I said (in my head) “Right, if this is your stop - please get off.” And I drove away. About half an hour later I started feeling like myself again. The following day I was back to my fully energetic ME and realising just how much the whole experience had affected me - it was astonishing, to say the least.. If I had presented a Doctor with my symptoms, he would not have known where to look. Because they were real - I WAS feeling them - and not 'real' at the same time, and because of this experiences and others like it, I have more of an idea of what causes ‘phantom’ pains. So next time you feel VERY tired, or not ‘like yourself’ or have unexplained pains anywhere in your body, get help. And then - get other help. Ring me – have a session, or a skype or even message session. It’s important to check medically, but also do check spiritually – so many people medicate and rack their brains for reasons why they are ‘sick’ and they are NOT sick. I can’t tell you how many people I meet that take pain relief for pains that belong to a spirit they are carrying. You can also carry pain for another (living) person in the family, or for a friend or someone you sit next to at work - or even pass in the street. This whole world is about energy. Everyone feels it in some way, shape or form, but most don't actually realise how to work with it and indeed what it is. A session can make a big difference to how you feel and closing off the gate that lets them in, or spiritually setting them free can be transformational and very rewarding. Most people have no idea just how hard this presses down on their lives. And yes - please do hear me when I say 'pressing down' because often another name for that is depression. What if you are carrying a war widow and all her sadness around with you and everything you do to your human body is not releasing her - so you believe you have depression? What if you have picked up a spirit who lost his land and wants it back? Do you think you might feel at war with yourself - and perhaps everyone else? We are OH so much more complex than just the physical body that we call home. If you need help understanding what's going on for you, get in touch. Deb X Thank you for reading my post. If you would like to read more, click below.
I work onstage in New Zealand and also run a clinic for one on one treatment on the North Shore of Auckland. I work worldwide via Skype. -previous blog -50 ways energy healing helps my clients here -42 'commandments' for a great life here -Unnecessary Unwellness & AMPing life here Contact me on: 021 726 276
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Do not complain about your life until you investigate the ideas you have. Make sure your ideas serve your wellness - if they do not - THROW THEM OUT. Get new ideas or leave room for the birth of inspiration. Bitterness will never make you better, or better than anyone else. Avoid toxic conversations and situations. Understand that when two people are angry and you don't like it - you are the one who needs to do something about it. More anger feeds the war, put your weapons down. And leave the battleground. The idea that someone has wronged you is sort of spiritually flawed because every step of your journey has been your teacher, if you did not learn from it - it's guaranteed you have another lesson coming. Learn fast - requiring the same lesson over and over is not bad luck. Know that if 'love' requires selling yourSelf short - it's not love - and do something about it. Be a friend to yourSelf. If you have no friends and you don't like yourSelf either - you know where to start. Embrace every day as a delivery vessel for new possibilities. Recognise and honour your values and your virtues. Dream a dream and take some steps towards it. Be just a little braver than you think you can be. Feed your inner child as often as possible. Light a candle for yourSelf every day. (or when you remember) Find something to be thankful for. Do something for somebody else. Make praise one of your hobbies. Speak your truth. If you love someone - tell them - a moment of such courage could change your life forever. If someone doesn't love you - move on. The person who will love you is waiting. Taking the ghost of your old partner into your new relationship is one of those ideas you need to examine. Remember you have a purpose on this planet. Know that miracles already surround you. See the beauty in small things. Heal yourSelf in nature. At least go for a walk, hug a tree, swim in the sea or lay on the grass. Laugh uproariously. Share your stories of hope and love. Inspire. Act on your hunches. Smell the roses. Paint with your hands. Meditate and rest when you need to. (you need to often) Love wildly, passionately, deeply, gently, loyally and often. Give your smiles away. Surrender everything you can do nothing about. And surrender all your pain and all your (perceived) unhealed relationships. Find out who you are. Do that NOW. Your joyfulness heals the planet. If you don't know how to start finding your joy - observe puppies and small children playing with water. Get over yourSelf. Give with grace. Receive with grace. Be pleased to know the end of the world is not today. You have both less time and more time than you think. So hurry up and... slow down. Eat honey. If 2000 year old honey is still edible and if 'you are what you eat' is really true, then honey IS the bees knees. You are each and every one of you a gift filled with gifts. Treasuring yourSelf will help you to honour your gifts. Drink more water. (The 42 Commandments are now available as a pack of cards @ just $42 NZD a pack plus postage. To order yours, click the picture or the red link below to go to the webstore.) I'm wishing YOU a miraculous day!
Recently the Readers Digest ran an article called 'The Healing Power of Nothing', and in it discussed placebo medication. Featured were the findings of Dr Fabrizio Benedetti of Turin University, in his trial of anti anxiety drugs. In his trial he had one group receiving the real medication and another not receiving the medication, but instead receiving a placebo. Which group flourished? The one receiving the placebo. Why? That group was also receiving a very attentive service from their Doctors. The other group (with the real medication) was just being delivered their pills and left to it. How necessary are drugs if we can help or heal ourselves with the Power of Placebo? And what does that say about the power of human caring? (in my book that is energy medicine) And it wasn't necessarily even real caring - it was manufactured for a survey. (Of course, there could have been some very caring individuals administering the placebos.) Dr Benedetti says "The real placebo response, the real placebo effect is a psychobiological phenomenon." That's mind/body right? That's much better than just treating the body as a mechanical functioning system. And when the caring is added - that takes it through to the emotional body. Don't underestimate the psychological benefit of anything. A benefit is a benefit, whatever it springs from. (And perhaps don't underestimate the reverse.) The 'no therapeutic effects' quote in the picture at the top of my page is not very accurate. It's sourced via Wiki, and might be a prevailing belief - however slowly but surely, it's being eroded, challenged and shifted. There are many definitions of placebo - the American Heritage Medical Dictionary says it's 'a substance containing no medication and prescribed or given to reinforce a patient's expectation to get well.' Mosby's Medical Dictionary says similar, but also says placebos 'are also prescribed for patients who cannot be given the medication they request or who, in the judgment of the health care provider, do not need that medication.' (which I find a little like playing God.) I don't know about you, but as I am an ex sceptic - more recent to mind medicine and holistic work - I've experienced the miraculous healing effects a Doctors waiting room has on small children. It's most definitely psychobiological. After an often endless wait - I've been embarrassed to say 'my child is sick'. And the Doctor says "don't worry - it happens all the time. And gives antibiotics or a vague wave and says 'it's a virus - there is not much we can do.' I would always go home and think 'argh - I don't really want to give antibiotics to my child and often just spent some time loving my child back to wellness instead. I had many bottles of unopened antibiotics. They became a very last resort while I didn't know I had an option. There are countless documented stories of spontaneous healing in the face of
near death. Countless stories of miraculous healings at the hands of patients themselves, carers or healers. I can tell you many stories of my own clients who walked in here believing their pain was in charge of them, and then walked out free of it - without a pill crossing their lips. Yesterday I worked on a client who has had a headache for 5 days - she said it 'was so bad, it was affecting her vision'. It's gone. After a distance healing that took approximately 5 minutes. And she has had her AHA moment to go with it. I am not saying that all medication is bad or Doctors are unnecessary - but the placebo effect is now well known and well documented - pills take time to process, have hidden side effects and generally also cost money. Chronic pain can often be relieved and released altogether - old pain can be erased with energy medicine and mind power. Injuries and illness can be released too. Life can be easier with energy medicine - which is created by knowledge and thought. It's a tool you can use for yourself and teach your children too, to enable and empower them. Pain is not what we - subject to mainstream advertising that fosters dependency, powerlessness and an interest in repeatedly lightening your wallet - previously were led to believe. You are in charge. And you DO have options. So I ask you this... Will you take another pill to numb the pain before you find out more? Deb X 021 726 276 *Dr Benedetti's quote sourced from - http://brainsciencepodcast.com/bsp/neurobiology-of-placebos-with-fabrizio-benedetti-bsp-77.html#sthash.oaHnFf4r.dpuf Love is easy.
Do you agree? Or do you have a resistance around these words? Whatever we feel about love is reflected into our giving and receiving of it. In truth, we simply are love, and when we embody that, love is. It is us, it is all around us. We are not separate from it. Many of us think we need to do something to get it. We don't. We simply be ourselves, putting no expectation or demand on another, seeing only love in them, and when we do, the pressure that was on them, or between us, falls away. It's an attunement to love that helps us most. An attunement to ourselves - a release of discord and of the grasping our old stories of pain, a release of 'he did this to me, so you might also be bad' and a freeing into gentleness, non-judgement and healthy vulnerability. A desire to release a painful mindset is a welcome mat, a precursor for the return if you will - to harmony. Harmony is wellness, and when we choose to release this mindset, and return to our rightful platform of love, inharmonious ideas and thoughts of pain subside and our pain also subsides along with it. It is then we find we have become a part of a priceless, deep abiding peace. With love attunements and miracles, Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: Dispelling Madame Zelda - tools - not fortune telling. Two words combined together are often abbreviated.
Do not - becomes don't. Can not becomes can't. I discovered another sneaky one just a moment ago via a download of information while I was blissfully tootling around the house... BLame. While you BLame you are restricted from forward movement. It's simple. You can't BLame and simultaneously be free. If you BLame you will Be Lame in some area of your life without a doubt. In a way you are actually the keeper of your own spiritual set of shackles. So can you do it? Can you free yourself of pointing the finger? My father always said 'when you point your finger, you have three pointing back at you.' SUPER important to make sure you know what you are doing and that you are FAULTLESS! What would you love to be free to do? And what do you have to let go of in order to create that? Because when you really focus, all that shrapnel from life disappears and you can enjoy real success. Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: Feeling negatively better |