Love is easy.
Do you agree? Or do you have a resistance around these words? Whatever we feel about love is reflected into our giving and receiving of it. In truth, we simply are love, and when we embody that, love is. It is us, it is all around us. We are not separate from it. Many of us think we need to do something to get it. We don't. We simply be ourselves, putting no expectation or demand on another, seeing only love in them, and when we do, the pressure that was on them, or between us, falls away. It's an attunement to love that helps us most. An attunement to ourselves - a release of discord and of the grasping our old stories of pain, a release of 'he did this to me, so you might also be bad' and a freeing into gentleness, non-judgement and healthy vulnerability. A desire to release a painful mindset is a welcome mat, a precursor for the return if you will - to harmony. Harmony is wellness, and when we choose to release this mindset, and return to our rightful platform of love, inharmonious ideas and thoughts of pain subside and our pain also subsides along with it. It is then we find we have become a part of a priceless, deep abiding peace. With love attunements and miracles, Deb X 021 726 276 Next post: Dispelling Madame Zelda - tools - not fortune telling.
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If you are complaining in any way about how your Dream Life feels out of reach,
ask yourself this… “would my Dream Life contain me, standing in the middle of it complaining?” If you are complaining - you may be actively working against your Dream Life because you are focusing on negatives – flip the negative round and look at it from another side – it will be an upside down opportunity. Repositioning brings blessings. So - welcome it energetically. Hold the thought of your Dream Life in your mind, breathe in and breathe out and just transport yourself there by imag(in)ing - that's being in the image - that you are already in it. How will you feel? What amazing things come into your mind when you are doing this? Where are you? Have a look around. Now draw a cord from yourSelf to the actualisation of that Dream Life and imagine you are pulling yourself along the cord, gently, slowly. Take a step. Open your eyes and consider this… In order for you to be in your Dream Life – you have to know/feel that you deserve it. Know that miracles are possible, and not only that – your world is flooded with them, when you have the eyes to see, ears to hear and heart to feel. Your ‘dream’ life is only a dream because you are not fully engaged with it yet. Tell the Universe you understand (if you do), that you are here for your special mission and you are willing to pick up the cord and use it as a handrail to steady yourself with as you walk along your path. If you get lost or feel you have strayed off your path, spiritually reach out again for your ‘handrail’, steady yourself by breathing. And take baby steps. One at a time builds your confidence. Make a little time to sit still and let the Universe know you are open to the messages and suggestions you need to know to get sorted. You’ve got work, the most blissful, blessed work to do. Love your work, Miracleworker, keep on keeping on. It’s all worth it. Your best friends are these five words "please show me the way" and if you couple them with a willingness to follow hunches (another words for divine inspiration) then the world is your oyster... Are you open to receiving grace? "I am open to receiving grace." Wishing you blissings and blessings. EnJOY. Deb X The shoes looked gorgeous in the window.
The idea of wearing the shoes felt delicious. All her life she had dreamed of having shoes like these, wearing them, how her life would feel once the shoes were in it. They were perfect. It was a match made in heaven and finally she had got to a place in her life where the shoes would be hers. She tried them on. They rubbed a tiny bit and were a little bit high, but she thought she could handle it. They were so beautiful, they would stretch and give - and end up being perfect. They would get used to her feet. Everyone said they looked amazing together. She would spend time admiring them. She loved them. Wearing them hurt a bit, but the blisters would stop eventually. She was in love with the idea of the shoes, but eventually she had to admit her feet were killing her and there were times when she wanted to wear the shoes so badly, but she knew that they were too painful. She wore them short distances instead, and came to understand, that even over those short distances the shoes did not support her. Yes the idea of them was good. They were like her drug. One day the pain became too much and she put them back on the shelf. She looked at them from time to time. And sometimes she tried them on. In her mind she dreamed of wearing them - of dancing in them joyously, being blissfully happy in them. Wishing hard. Once she wore them to the supermarket, but as soon as she walked in, she knew it was a mistake. She limped home, her heart sore, the disappointment was so great. They hadn't stretched and given where she had needed them to, they made her teeter and not feel sure of herself. She realised the little whispers that said ‘No’ were worth listening to, even though they felt like they were trying to steal her joy… They held so much promise and they had so much potential, but the shoes didn't change her life. Only she could. She realised that she was looking on the outside for something that she needed to grow within. And that the way she walked was more important than a pair of shoes. Her feet were what supported her and she should take care where she put them, and what she put them into. She invested in putting her best foot forward. And, walking with heart instead of her mind, she decided to just love where she was standing. It changed everything. She became love. The love fitted her better than any pair of shoes, and that love drew new love to her, new love that honoured her better than trying to squeeze into anything that didn’t feel right. Her path was paved with love and bathed in light. Her feet felt fabulous. And her heart said 'Yes'. Deb Wharfe (c) 2013 You are not missing out on anything. There is nothing to see on the other side
of the fence. The grass is not greener there, but if you hanker after it - you may be fooled into thinking that it is. Your magic is right where you are standing. Water your own garden, sing your own songs and count your blessings. This is the surest and fastest way to be surrounded by magic and to welcome in miracles. The rainbow does not come to you if you chase it - it is best appreciated from a distance, like all God's work. God is an impressionist painter. Standing close up will have you missing the point. And possibly getting crossed eyes. Breathe. Still yourself. Stand back. Have patience with your own process and allow yourself to know the peace in your own heart. If the butterfly lands on your shoulder - you are blessed. If it lands on the flower in front of you - you are blessed. If it lands in the neighbours garden - you are blessed. If there are butterflies on the planet - you are blessed... You are blessed. It's enough. Get to know it. Personal contentment is in this knowing. And contentment is the lotus that holds happiness, truth, freedom, goodness, love, miracles and so much more. Wishing you a day of contentment. In love and miracles, Deb x Dear Friend,
I hear you having the same problem and being mad at people who are not doing what you want them to do. They are not treating you how you want to be treated. You cannot control them. After all - if they tried to control you - you would consider it an insult. Leave them alone. They are not treating you how you would like to be treated because... a. You have not given them a guide by treating yourself well. b. They are resonating to a different energy from the one your body/field is trying to move into. It hurts because you are holding a finite vision of yourself. It hurts because within it there is an absence of love. One train of thought says people do 'mean things' to themselves and each other because they don't understand what 'honouring' is and they have forgotten who they are. Another train of thought says 'Every moment is perfect.' In the Bible it says Adam went to sleep and nowhere does it say he woke up. I find that interesting. You must awaken in this body in order to make peace with what you feel are recurring 'problems.' Perfect learning is in each 'problem', perfect opportunities, perfect growth, strength, realignment, and so much more. Be ok with the lesson and it will work for you. Hold resistance and this resistance will cause you pain. You will have the lesson again if you refuse to understand it. Every person on this planet has free will, and many are exercising it. You included. You have the choice to walk clear of painful situations and to also not turn you attention to pain. Yet you wish to punish yourself by doing this. It only needs investigating if you do not wish for peace. Peace is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence. Love is with you when you choose to illuminate its presence. Limitless power is with you when you choose to acknowledge its presence. Limitless power is you. You are not broken. You merely need to step fully into your own shoes. And know you are dearly, divinely, always loved. Deb x If you were your own True Love, how delighted you would be with your own quirkiness.
How beautiful you would find your curves, how courageous your scars and your marks left by life's wounding and how very magnificent the well earned stripes of your stretch marks would look. How gentle and patient you would be with yourSelf if something felt sad. How carefully you would choose your words. You would find yourSelf so funny, so beautiful, so kind and so caring. You would be awed with what a great person you are, even after all the challenges you have had. You would tell yourSelf not to be hard on yourself; that you always did the best could, that you are worth the very best life has to offer, and you would make sure you gave precious time to yourSelf. You would surround yourSelf with good people and good ideas. You would find yourSelf lovely little things to do, you’d light yourself a candle, you would take yourSelf constantly out on dates, fill your life with little kindnesses and you would give yourSelf the best experience ever of love, encouragement and delight. You would adore yourSelf and want to hear what your heart has to say. You would dream of the best things you could do, the best places you could go, and you would laugh about some of the dreams. And some would enter your heart. You’d be ever so grateful for the miracle of you. And if you did that? You would be filled with light, with love, with encouragement, with delight… You would be free to be the You that You really are, cherished, honoured and loved. You would be the One you can lean on, the One you trust, the One you seek out. The One you are ‘looking for’ would be right on the end of your nose. The other end, not the one we traditionally mean. When you are that One, what often happens, is your resultant satisfied, joyous heartsong of overflowing love that resonates out into the Universe calls with the right harmony for a resonant heart to hear it. In order to find this, find yourSelf. You are your own most precious gift. Pour all that love you are waiting to give someone into yourSelf, step into your own awesome sunshine and see the truth of your delicious magnificence one yummy drop at a time. Would you? I’d like that. Deb x 021 726 276 Previous post: My journey through my shows. A while ago I realised my Shows were part of a
process of self discovery... I started out with 'Whose Life is it Anyway?' - A Show about the dawning realisation that I was actually important, that I was in control of my own destiny and that it was really crucial for me to understand what brought me joy. I was previously so numb I almost forgot I was real. I had got very detached from life, depressed, dealing with a great deal of life trauma, and, most definitely treading water - I was on the mouse wheel. I was somebody's wife, somebody's daughter, somebody's mother, somebody's leftovers, and my own big fat nobody. I was a non-person. Putting that down, finding joy and moving forward gave me the tools, impetus and material for my first Show. I did two of these Shows, one on the North Shore and one in South Auckland. Both resonated with people. In the process, I discovered many other people who forgot they mattered, had lost their way and had no idea who they were or what brought them joy. I shared my story of overcoming, uplifting, transformation, and gave them tools to help them on their own healing journeys. My second Show 'From the Doormat to the Magic Carpet' was all about discovering my own innate magic and my place in the grand scheme of things. A very special spiritual experience gave me the name for this Show and I realised what a doormat I had inadvertently been - just trying to hold everything together when it was all falling apart. The doormat moment was actually my life or death moment when I chose not to surrender and keel over. I forced myself to push through the pain to carry on with my life. It also resonated with many people. And there was a great deal of really amazing feedback. 'In Love & Miracles' was all about dancing in the magic and realising how important it was to share with others and to set that example. There was real love in my life, I had learned not to try to 'get' love, but to personify love and so love was drawn irresistibly into my life. My husband had arrived and everything was about teaching others to create their own magic, to be love and to radiate consciously, that love to others. My most recent Show, 'Out of the Box, Bringing Magic & Miracles to Life' is all about saying "I'm here to do this amazing work, Yes, I'm a miracleworker, I'm a leader, a pioneer, and I will stand and do this work, no matter what. I've been sort of hiding from it, afraid really, to fully take it on. It takes a lot to stand up and raise your head in this field. Taking power and walking with it, is a revelation in a way - I know I'm supposed to be doing it - I've stopped fighting it, worrying about it or feeling like I don't deserve it. I'm here now. Finally for me - 'the Eagle has definitely landed'. "I'm a storyteller, a magician, a wordsmith, a healer, & miracle worker. I take people through a visual imaging and 'feeling' experience, clearing them, raising their spirits, and healing them, sometimes profoundly." Here's a snapshot of testimonials from my Dec Show 'In Love & Miracles' 'Heya Gorgeous Deb! Thank you so much for your awesome show last night! Wow... Truly amazing! Words cannot say how I now feel... Depression due my beautiful Mum's illness has lifted etc. I feel happy to be alive & truly blessed! - Paula 'I slept right through when normally woken with hip pain.....thankyou !!!!!!!!! you are indeed magic !!' - Pat 'An awesome evening with Deb last night at the Rose Centre, Auckland. A wonderful presentation ... we played with energy, healed peoples "unwellness" and enjoyed the magic she created ... reminding us all how powerful we are.' ♥ - Carolyn Hey you. Yes YOU. No don't look behind you.
And don't ask yourSelf who I am writing to. It's actually you. I wanted to say thanks. Thanks for all the wonderful things you have done. For the times when you put your hand up, when you went the extra mile, for the times when you took someone's hand when they needed you. For the times when you pushed yourSelf harder, when you gave a little more, when you would rather have cried and hid and instead you bravely faced the world. I'd like to say thank you for soldiering on with the pain that you carry, to help others in spite of your own need. I'd like to say thank you for the inspirations you bring to the world. I'd like to say thank you for the little things you do every day that do count. Even when you think they don't. You are a beautiful, incredible, amazing, worthwhile person with unlimited potential for loving. And I've seen you use that potential over and over. You'll do it again and again. Despite being knocked back or hurt, because that’s who you are. You believe in Love. And I'm right there with you. It's real. When you love as deeply and unconditionally as you can - the planet breathes in peace. You are gold, and you are the change we have all wished to see in the world. The magic is within You every single moment of every single day. Your touch of kindness brings grace. The essence of my being salutes the light that dwells within yours. There is indeed only One of us. It's a blessing to know you. In love and miracles, Deb 021 726 276 Next post: Losing your RRR! |