I am always grateful for feedback. It helps other people to see the scope and the effects of my work. Sometimes the feedback I receive brings me to tears. Windy's story is one of those... Hi Deb, I just wanted to express my sincere gratitude in the miraculous way that you have changed my life. For more years than I would like to think of I was living with a dark cloud over my head. Nothing ever seemed to go my way. I was continuously physically ill and somewhat depressed. I was always trying to "fix" people and seemed to take hold of their negative energy with no release. Life was quite unbearable at times. Then I met you. You have freed me from the weight of other peoples "junk". After our first meeting, which was a free "how to heal your family'' seminar, you taught me how to remove the pain in my neck. I have had this pain for over 15 years with many trips to the chiropractor, osteo and taking a ridiculous amount of medication. Nothing seemed to help. It was so bad I could not even fully turn my head to the right. Now I am completely healed! At our second meeting, which was a crystal course where we made our very own "miracle spray'', you taught me how to be calm and just relax. This has been a game changer for me as I have always been "high strung". My husband noticed a difference immediately and is very thankful that I found you! Finally at our last session, which was my very first one on one with you, you cleared my heart of a heaviness that has been weighing me down for over 20 years! Growing up in a funeral home is probably one of the hardest things a child can do. I have held onto everyone of those lives that were lost and the grief of their families. I lived in constant fear of death and the fear of losing the ones closest to me. My entire body tingled as you cleared away all the pain that was clinging to me. My heart is no longer aching and my head is full of hope and joy. I am eternally grateful for your work, your love and your passion for helping others. You will be in my prayers always. - Windy Cahill - Previous blog post Eyesight miracles here Deb X I work in NZ and worldwide 6 days a week from Auckland's North Shore. To book your own session text me on 021 726 276 Sessions can be one on one, or over distance via Skype. To find out where my next seminars are, or more info about sessions, email me via the button below. Next Shows:
Auckland Sept 6th at the Dolphin Theatre 7:45pm Tauranga Sept 13th at the Tauranga Yacht & Power Boat Club 7:30pm info here
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Hot on the heels (I know, I couldn't resist it) of last nights dream about sandals... comes a story of magical manifesting and surprise.
This is real - but it's also a fairy tale manifestation, and it just may have a gift in it for you - so I will start it the way all good fairy tales start. Once upon a time... when I was a struggling single mum, I wished for a pair of shoes. Not just any pair of shoes, actually I really wanted boots, and I had an idea of the boots that I wanted. They were brown and had white stitching on them. At least mid-ankle length and as I had next to no money at all - I had no idea how I could possibly end up with them. I considered they were a pipe dream, but all the same, I wished for them. I had a picture in my head and I don't know what made me do it, but I said 'Dear God, I would LOVE a pair of boots like these. I have no money to buy them, but I would LOVE them, and I don't know how they could be mine, but I would just love them.' And I completely dismissed the idea and went on with my life. A couple of weeks passed. I had to go pick my children up in Tauranga (they had been away for a few days) and asked my friend Liz if she would like to come for a ride. She was up for it and so off we went, leaving Auckland early enough to be in Tauranga about lunchtime. We got out of the car, gasping for coffee and headed off up the road to find a nice cafe. About half way up the first street, the footpath was clogged with a group of women and we had to almost 'swim' through them to get past. (Just quietly, I was a bit annoyed.) We were hailed by a lady with a microphone and asked if we wanted to join the queue to "win' something. Ever the sceptic - I said no, and prepared to carry on, but she persisted. "You REALLY want to do this" she said. 'Oh yeah' I thought to myself, but gave her a brief window - just a few seconds of my time, for the benefit of the doubt. She came through with flying colours. It was a radio station/shoe store promo called..... Cinderella for a day. They even had a throne. Participants were to choose a pair of shoes to try on and if the shoes fitted - they were a gift. I asked her how much it cost, because I couldn't believe it was really free. She said it was free. Seriously. Waiting in the queue I had time to watch girls ranging from roughly 15 years old trying to cram their feet into shoes that were too big and too small and thought they could have done with looking at the sizes on the boxes. (Older Cinderellas might be a bit more wily...) I was a size 39. I did a double-take when I saw there was a pair of brown boots with white stitching sitting beside the throne. I sat down and looked at the box. It was size 39. 'There is a God' I said to myself, and requested them, giving my friend Liz a nudge towards the red shoes next to them (she was next in the queue). They fitted me and they felt like I was walking on air. Liz fitted the red shoes - they looked gorgeous. We left the store and literally danced up the road to a cafe. Cinderella indeed. Between us we were holding over $500 worth of shoes. I simply cannot explain to you how that felt. Those boots lasted for ages and they were soooo comfortable. I mentally, humbly and profusely apologised for being such a sceptic and vowed to return to Tauranga. I haven't been back... BUT... I'll be there again soon - on September 13th, I will be at the Tauranga Yacht Club, in Sulphur Point from 7:30pm, BRINGING MIRACLES - telling stories of amazing spiritual experiences, speaking about healing and the simple ways we can heal and empower ourselves and our children, saving a huge amount of time, stress and money in the process. My work is defined as profound, stunning, inspirational and life changing. I'm a teacher, speaker, healer, humanitarian, a survivor, a changemaker and so much more. Every day I help people make changes in their lives and many of my clients call me their miracle lady and there are testimonials to some of the miracles here. I'm a humanitarian too, so I would love to give back to the people that helped clean up the oil spill there and also would like to offer an opportunity to caregivers. If you are one of those people and would like to claim a subsidised ticket - please contact me directly here. If you have a special friend that you would like to nominate a seat for - please write to me about that here. The eventfinder ticket link for standard price tickets is here. I'm looking forward to creating miracles for you. Deb X 021 726 276
NOT SO SILLY PUTTY: I was considering hearing (and partial deafness) through the week and got the distinct impression that a man was saying 'I don't want to hear that!' to his nagging wife. It happened a few times and then I saw him, he was older, cupping his ear and saying "what did you say?" to someone.
It registered. I saw the layers he had put down over his own ears. And I know there have been times when I have zoned people out in order to concentrate on something else - and I've been able to do it. In my experience, hearing is directional and also optional. And we all know we can 'switch off' right? The ability of our brains to rewire themselves according to experience is called neuroplasticity. There is scientific evidence to suggest that neuralplastic ability is different in different people. Your neural 'plasticine' is obviously pretty amazing when you are a small child - and at stages in your life you may mold yourself to take on new abilities. If one sense - say for example your vision was impaired, your sense of hearing may be enhanced (it often is) by your heightened requirement to perceive differently in order to survive. So what if you didn't want to see? Or you didn't want to hear? How would you be using your neural 'plasticine' then? Would you be inadvertently freezing or hardening it? Hmmm. So what if the 'not wanting to' was healed? What would happen if it was suddenly safe? I have worked on a woman who was told she had Macular Degeneration. She had accepted she was 'going blind' because this was a considered medical opinion based on observation, experience and proven medical probability. I told her I believed she didn't have to go blind just because somebody expected it, and asked her if she wanted that outcome. She hadn't even considered that she might have an option (it's not something that people generally realise). Of course she said no. I worked on her, just a couple of sessions, and made her a Macular Regeneration Spray to support her healing. Her condition stabilised. She is not blind and when she sees me in the supermarket (from a fair distance away) she calls me her 'miracle lady'. Did my healing rewire her vision or did I reframe her neural plasticity? Does it matter? In this instance - not listening created a miracle. My friend Mary damaged her eye just on Christmas 2011 and to this day she has a 6mm scar, hazing and a pitted cornea. I worked with her after the damage was done and she can see very well through that eye, although according to the current understanding of how the eye 'works' - she should not be able to. Her eye specialist tests her eyes for free because he can't quite work out how it's possible. (She has not told him that I worked on her.) Does she have amazing neural plasticity? There is more to life than we can possibly imagine. And what I see is that we need to be F L E X I B L E. How is your neural plasticity? And what have you been told about what you've 'got'? I may not believe it. And it just may be in your best interests that I don't. There are miracles we can't even imagine, just waiting to be served up. I say YES to them. What else is possible?
Do you resonate with this?
You've dragged yourself to work, aching and knowing that you really shouldn't be there, but you are scraping through hoping you'll make it to the weekend. It's only Wednesday and everyone is looking at you as if you are a leper. You have 'the guilts' and are being eyeballed as a risk to everyone's health, while simultaneously cursed, because nobody wants you to take time off. You are wishing you were at home in bed anyway. You somehow find a hidden reserve of energy and make it through the afternoon, go home, and in the morning you just can't do it. Your worry about the cost of a day off, of healthcare, what other people think about you spreading bugs and being a general inconvenience has melded with your feeling like crap and something has tipped the balance on your scales. You decide not to go into the office today. You don't really like taking pills, but if you have to, you will take them, and you're not getting any better, so you go to the Doctor - because you can't take time off work without a medical certificate. Sitting in the waiting room, you pray that other peoples bugs don't jump on you and so you shallow breathe and cringe slightly. You watch, privately shuddering as small, slime encrusted children share their slime with toys and books, and you wonder to yourself about how potentially hazardous it is to collate a whole lot of buggy people in one space. The Doctor is running late. More buggy people arrive. You succumb to the allure of the 2 year old House & Garden - to discover the recipe of your dreams in its pages. Your morals say no to ripping out the page - and the recipe is a long one. You are halfway through frantically scribbling when the Doctor calls your name. In his office you breathe again, mentally testing yourself on his eye chart, and wondering how tall you are now, while you look at the measuring tape on his wall. He takes one look at you and says "You're not well." This is not news to you. (Doctors are amazing people, and they work brilliantly with body mechanics and clues. Thankfully some very fabulous ones are getting into natural therapies and so can offer a range of services - however - I am not talking about them - this is just an experience.) He is not sure what it is. You and your body presented him with clues, and the clues seem to indicate it could be a virus. However, just in case it's something he can kill - he gives you a prescription for antibiotics and your 'get out of jail free' card - the You Are Medically Unfit for Work certificate. Off to the chemist, you wait again, and the total sum of your trip is around $90 - $100. You go home and eye the antibiotics suspiciously. They appear to be baiting you and they just feel like chemicals and giving in. Thinking that you normally get well anyway in about 3 days, you put them on top of the fridge. With the other old unopened antibiotics. Somewhere you read about them killing good bacteria anyway. You are definitely off to bed, but first you have a glass of water because you are dehydrated from all the running round, you put on a load of washing, clean some windows, wash the kitchen floor and catch up on a few jobs that you haven't done around the house. Later you feel much better. Even though you didn't take the tablets. Why? You moved out of work energy - your body was telling you to leave and you listened. You moved into the energy of 'I am now seeking wellness' - the Doctors Clinic - and it was crucial, because the Doctor gave you a few minutes of his time, checked you out, reassured you slightly and gave you permission to be off work. (the recipe is completely gone from your memory) You went to the Pharmacy even though you don't really like taking medication, because you are a person who follows through with things, and you still do believe medicine has some kind of role to play. (in some cases and for some people, it does) Your body said no to the medication (I CAN DO IT was kicking in) and that's why (despite that nagging feeling your mother would growl) it's on the fridge. Your teaspoon of stubbornness (that will stop you from telling your mother you're sick) that busted through and said 'NO' has helped you to flip some kind of hidden switch. You achieved something that, while it was just getting housework out of the way, was actually a 'weight off your shoulders' too. You feel lighter and a bit fresher, and also, in a small way, successful. You moved energy in your house. You go to bed, but don't feel as sick as you did. In the morning you feel much better, better than you did when you were dragging yourself to work, but you stay home - just so you can have a day off that actually means something - because you have a certificate. (You can clean out the bowl on top of the fridge another day.) Consider this: All the things you did that made you feel better - were things you were doing just for you. What if you just gave yourself permission to take time, enjoying the nurturing energy of a natural therapy? Natural Therapy tends to boost you and shorten healing time. That $90 - $100 is a great investment in a session of clearing, healing, moving stuck energy, maybe even including house and office clearing too. Your session runs to the clock. You enter a peaceful 'bug free' haven (or even stay home, saving gas and travel time and have this healing via Skype) and as the energy is cleared round you, you are lifted into a space of freshness. Your equilibrium is restored. You have a whole hour all to yourself. No antibiotics, just pure energy boosting, undivided attention that is all about, and all for you and your wellness. Nurture time is GOOD. You feel more like You when you are finished/leave. Enhancing wellness helps removes the need to heal unwellness. Regular energy work helps you be more connected to the way your body feels, functions and how it speaks to you. Science actually says the body - despite the fact that you can push on it and it appears to be solid - is an energetic instrument. So this is why time and time again, physical illness is removed in ways that seem impossible, with energy. And because it's just energy, it works on body, mind and spirit - not just the mechanics. Deb X Bookings & availability text: 021 726 276 (c) 2013 Sessions may include and are not limited to: Clearing and release of unwellness from illness or injury (new, old, or chronic) Clearing of stuck energy in home and office Relationship Healing Cord cutting and removal of old energy from past relationships Family healing, clearing the air and basically the removal of (and freeing up of energy around) anything that is weighing you down. Clearing the energy around projects, situations and more. Other posts: 50+ways my healing has helped people Deciphering your body code: Pain Andorra is a tiny country in the Pyrenees mountain range between France and Spain. It is a popular ski resort, with just 20,000 inhabitants. It's loaded with breathtakingly beautiful scenery, very clear water - breathtakingly freezing cold for a traveller to wash her hair with, I might add - but it held something else magical that had me spellbound - a surprising and heart warming demonstration of community. I stayed only for a very quiet night in an alpine hut, ultimately sleeping 'fairly rough' on an airbed that had absolutely no commitment to staying inflated. It may just be me, but if I'm on one, I can't go to sleep until the whole thing has deflated and my body parts are making full contact with the floor. None of this half floating round stuff for me. In Andorra, I experienced strangers wishing others well. As my fellow travellers and I were wandering into the main town on foot, there was a huge tooting, and beeping of car horns coming from behind us. Coming from New Zealand this might signal some major calamity, so startled, we all turned around... to see a wedding car, and many cars following with ribbons on their aerials - all of them were tooting and honking their horns, and as they got right into the heart of the traffic, all the other traffic around honked and tooted too. All the people waved and shouted hooray, and the joyous cacophony heralded the procession through town and out the other side, bouncing off the mountains and echoing until peace prevailed. It was utterly magical witnessing a community celebrating the love of two people they may never know. I banked that magic inside myself, savoured and remembered it, and many times when I've seen a bride since, I've tooted and/or waved, and my heart smiles remembering Andorra. Sharing joy, celebrating and adding our blessings to other peoples blessings is something we are often shy to do, but it's such a beautiful way to join in community with others. It's so uplifting once we allow ourselves to be open to it, it makes the world much smaller and more intimate and gives us a deeper experience of life. Do you have a tradition like this? Deb X http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andorra_la_Vella If there is one thing I have learned, it's that all of life is about energy.
The body is a constant process of renewal, not a structure as some people believe, and in it, energy never stops. Our whole body - it's complete cellular make up, including all organs and the skeleton, is replaced within one year. So what are we feeding it? And I'm not talking food here, I'm talking energy and power. Do we enable? Or disable? What we observe becomes us. What we hold close becomes us. It literally does rub off. People that are close to us are oscillating in our field, the same way as we oscillate in theirs. It is actually impossible to be alone, because not just energetically speaking, but scientifically speaking too -wherever we go, we take people, trees, sky and plants with us. We inhale each other and all the energy that is around us. This is why we are sometimes referred to as One. So when people 'get sick' in any way, what they are referring to is an imbalance of energy - whether it shows up in a physical way or an emotional way - it starts with a flattened/squashed/ or grey energy. I have lost count of the number of people who tell me that they have had 'this thing forever' so they are 'stuck with it'. In a short time, these same people have been free. Energy can be moved in a moment, and your pain, no matter how old it is, brings me joy. Why? Because my gift is the gift of turning pain to wellness. Your physical, spiritual and emotional pain - to me - is an opportunity to exercise my abilities to bring you liberation, wellness and skills to help you and to change your life. So educating you and freeing you, is not only my pleasure, it's the icing on my cake. If you are carrying pain (no matter how old it is), you probably don't need a pill, what you do need is TLC, a clearing and then, energy tools. Simple, effective, and powerful. Mainstream media mostly tells you that pain is a part of life. The cost of believing that is massive, and they are right until you stop resisting the power that you have within you and allow it to wake right up. And that is most definitely a gift. If you have a group, I have speakers rates available. I am currently taking One on One clients, locally and world wide - either in person or via skype, and my next shows are scheduled in Hamilton - August 3rd, Tauranga August 23rd, Auckland Sept 6th, Nelson Sept 20th, Wellington Nov 28th, Auckland Dec 13th. I have been asked to speak in Dargaville and am arranging that. My Christchurch show is to be advised - I have plans afoot for something super special... sending as many goodwill vibes as possible so it comes together perfectly. I'm looking forward to giving you my simple tools to create an inspired, fabulous life, because it's my heartfelt wish to have a radical, positive effect on your life, and on the wellbeing of your family. Are you ready to meet your brilliance? Deb X
Maybe you are a healer…? How would you know?
We are all healers in some way - but some of us do resonate more with our abilities, or could do with awakening to our abilities so we can use them to enhance our lives and the lives of others. Here are 15 Tell Tale Signs to watch out for... When I first started my work, I was completely blind to many of my gifts, and only over time, did they become obvious to me. For example, I was told by people who did readings, to stop doing readings for free - I was just talking to people and had no idea I was having some 'mystical conversation' with them, it was a natural part of my life, me being me. Apparently I was also a 'healer' - and if you are an 'entry level' person you will resonate with this word - as 'healer' means 'person that makes others feel better'. The following list may bring an AHA moment or two, plus answer the odd question you may have. It all relates to my experience and what I have witnessed through my work. Knowing how to use these gifts has changed my life completely. It can even become an income, and may indeed be your life’s calling. How many can you tick off this list? Share with me - I'd love to know. It's my absolute privilege to teach healers, to help them start on their healers journey or help them grow their business. If you are ready to take a next step, you can let me know here and we can make a plan. If it's useful to you, please share with others. xx
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In many cases ONE Energy Healing session can release ALL your pain. can cut the distance between You and Your Healing into minutes. Pain, stiffness and tension are all energy blockages - even pain due to injuries - and energy healing clears this. Why do I think energy healing is great? These are results...
and... helping plants grow. (You should see the size of my jade plant leaves!) So what else is possible? All these things have happened for my clients, their testimonials are here. I was a sceptic who regularly took Panadol and other painkillers for a chronic sore back. I had phantom pains, a broken heart, felt depressed and had low self esteem. I recovered from a prolonged series of traumatic life events that brought both extreme pain and around 30 years of fear. I still am partly sceptic and that's why I love to see and hear results. Every day, people are helped by this work. It works over the phone, via Skype, anywhere in the world. Some people are helped in ways they never dreamed possible. Are you ready to believe that you can let go of pain?
Do not complain about your life until you investigate the ideas you have. Make sure your ideas serve your wellness - if they do not - THROW THEM OUT. Get new ideas or leave room for the birth of inspiration. Bitterness will never make you better, or better than anyone else. Avoid toxic conversations and situations. Understand that when two people are angry and you don't like it - you are the one who needs to do something about it. More anger feeds the war, put your weapons down. And leave the battleground. The idea that someone has wronged you is sort of spiritually flawed because every step of your journey has been your teacher, if you did not learn from it - it's guaranteed you have another lesson coming. Learn fast - requiring the same lesson over and over is not bad luck. Know that if 'love' requires selling yourSelf short - it's not love - and do something about it. Be a friend to yourSelf. If you have no friends and you don't like yourSelf either - you know where to start. Embrace every day as a delivery vessel for new possibilities. Recognise and honour your values and your virtues. Dream a dream and take some steps towards it. Be just a little braver than you think you can be. Feed your inner child as often as possible. Light a candle for yourSelf every day. (or when you remember) Find something to be thankful for. Do something for somebody else. Make praise one of your hobbies. Speak your truth. If you love someone - tell them - a moment of such courage could change your life forever. If someone doesn't love you - move on. The person who will love you is waiting. Taking the ghost of your old partner into your new relationship is one of those ideas you need to examine. Remember you have a purpose on this planet. Know that miracles already surround you. See the beauty in small things. Heal yourSelf in nature. At least go for a walk, hug a tree, swim in the sea or lay on the grass. Laugh uproariously. Share your stories of hope and love. Inspire. Act on your hunches. Smell the roses. Paint with your hands. Meditate and rest when you need to. (you need to often) Love wildly, passionately, deeply, gently, loyally and often. Give your smiles away. Surrender everything you can do nothing about. And surrender all your pain and all your (perceived) unhealed relationships. Find out who you are. Do that NOW. Your joyfulness heals the planet. If you don't know how to start finding your joy - observe puppies and small children playing with water. Get over yourSelf. Give with grace. Receive with grace. Be pleased to know the end of the world is not today. You have both less time and more time than you think. So hurry up and... slow down. Eat honey. If 2000 year old honey is still edible and if 'you are what you eat' is really true, then honey IS the bees knees. You are each and every one of you a gift filled with gifts. Treasuring yourSelf will help you to honour your gifts. Drink more water. (The 42 Commandments are now available as a pack of cards @ just $42 NZD a pack plus postage. To order yours, click the picture or the red link below to go to the webstore.) I'm wishing YOU a miraculous day!
Deepak Chopra is amazing - listening to him just inspires me to write and write. A lecture he gave in Tagore yielded these notes: Just 20% of people in the world are in jobs they love. If people are ignored by the boss at work - their rate of disengagement is at 40%. If the boss criticises them, the rate drops to 20% - meaning they respond better to criticism than being ignored. If they are praised it goes right down to 1%. The source of these figures is a Gallup World Poll. (Deepak is one of the Gallup scientists) What's true for work is true for all of life, and I started thinking about how this would affect love relationships. And remembered one of the last times I watched Oprah (about 15 yrs ago) I saw Dr Phil on her Show. He had a couple with him and the man was complaining about his wife and their bad relationship. They were very open to receiving help - the husband said his wife had 'let herself go and was fat and unattractive and they weren't having sex.' She said she felt like 'he didn't care about her, she was just the machine that ran the house' and she didn't feel attractive so sex wasn't really on her list, she was too stressed out. Dr Phil asked her when her husband last told her she was beautiful. She couldn't remember. So he gave them homework. Daily - even though the husband didn't feel that way and she would think it was rubbish, her husband was to look into her eyes and tell her she was beautiful - for a month and then come back to the Show. That was it - and off they went. When they came back he was holding her hand and the light was shining out of her. He couldn't stop smiling. She looked radiant, amazing and lighter. It was pretty obvious they had done their homework. They said the first few days felt like lies and they weren't engaged with it. Slowly but surely they both secretly realised they were looking forward to it. Then one day (on about day 24) they just cried and held each other. They had found their way home. She had lost real weight too – her emotional wall had come down and her heaviness had lifted. And of course they couldn’t get enough of each other! Did you notice my use of the word engaged? Magic is there for us in the moment we engage with it. When people fall in love and get married – engagement is more than a time for a ring - it's a description of how they are with each other. When they get married, some people disengage. But some don't. What's their secret? Sometimes everyday life existence we have piles heaviness on top of our engagement and breaks it. The Grind, feeling like you are on the treadmill, stress and pressure all put life into the adrenal fight or flight response mode and life needs to be shifted back out of that. That's what Relationship healing is for. Relationship healing moves the rubble so you can see who is under there. It re-engages and re-ignites people, love and grace. We all do the basics, and under stress, even the basics can suffer. But the basics aren't necessarily the bits that help our spirits soar. The basics don't always give us strength to go the extra mile, so the relationship clearing makes fresh ground for that. It's like cleaning the windows, dusting and vacuuming is to your home. We all wash houses, cars, bodies and clothes, but there hasn't been an energetic way to just lift the stress up and clear it out of relationships till now. And sometimes people need clearing in order to move on, to admit that they have
tried everything, to be ok with making an ending where they need to. A relationship healing also does that. It puts people in the right place according to what is in their best benefit. You might not have realised, but you really can choose. It's up to you. Deb x |